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What women want in a man

Drolefille

PolyPanGeekGirl
Drofille, considering you're in two relationships I'd be damn curious to know what you're looking for in a mate. If you've already posted it and it's buried here in this thread could you tell me where it is?
Feel free to ask in my interview thread. I will bump it.
 

averageJOE

zombie
A man must genuinely love women and treat them with respect as it makes women feel safe. He should truly delight in the company of women so that his senses are overwhelmed, dare I say intoxicated, in their presence. Confidence is a key ingredient for a man in attracting a mate. I think he should be brimming with it. If he doesn't believe in himself how will she? He should focus on creating emotional intimacy and view physical intimacy as a by product of it. There should be common religious values among partners. He should be a far better listener than speaker. He must develop his "game" so that it's all about girl and finding out who she really is. Women tend to like a man that can make them smile. You don't need to be Buddy Hackett but you should be able to crack a few jokes and bring a positive attitude. It never hurts to be good looking but a man should at least be well groomed, sorry hipsters. Women love guys that can dance. If you don't know how you need to take some lessons asap. It drives them wild.
All that stuff is just for courting. Fluff. It speaks nothing of marriage or deep relationships. In marriage, everything described above fades, and fades fast.
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Well, at least you didn't call anyone arrogant this time.

.....and now you make our forum look like a crappy late night infomercial for guys who are desperate and have low self esteem.

I request you post a thread about yourself in the interview forum. I think it would be fascinating get to know you better
 

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
Premium Member
Granted I'm just a simple hustler from the street, but this is APPLIED knowledge, not something you paid way too much money to learn in some classroom

That is a remarkably anti-intellectual statement. You might as well just say that we should chuck all education in favor of anecdotes from people who are so obviously bigoted and ignorant that they actually think their ignorance has any value when it comes to advice about socialization.
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
That is a remarkably anti-intellectual statement. You might as well just say that we should chuck all education in favor of anecdotes from people who are so obviously bigoted and ignorant that they actually think their ignorance has any value when it comes to advice about socialization.

Do you have trouble picking up women?
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
I haven't tried yet, since I haven't found someone where I am who I thought would be a good match for me.

Why do you ask? Don't tell me any more advice is coming up. I already skip enough cheap ads on YouTube. :D

My advice is already given. I don't blame you if you don't want to believe some anonymous poster on the internet, especially one with such polarizing views, but I promise you in this area I know something that works. If you apply what I said, you may not find that one in a million girl that's a perfect match for you because there's a lot of luck in that but you'll have more female companions than you'll know what to do with. You'll go out on dates constantly and if you're looking for sexual satisfaction you should be able to find it. After that come back here and tell me I don't know what the F I'm talking about
 

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
Premium Member
My advice is already given. I don't blame you if you don't want to believe some anonymous poster on the internet, especially one with such polarizing views, but I promise you in this area I know something that works. If you apply what I said, you may not find that one in a million girl that's a perfect match for you because there's a lot of luck in that but you'll have more female companions than you'll know what to do with. You'll go out on dates constantly and if you're looking for sexual satisfaction you should be able to find it. After that come back here and tell me I don't know what the F I'm talking about

Quite frankly, I trust my own judgment far more than yours, so I'm more inclined to experience things myself and learn from my experiences instead of taking your so-called "advice."

By the way, remember that this thread is titled "What women want in a man," not "What Peacemaker wants in a woman" or "Peacemaker's long experience as a life coach."
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Quite frankly, I trust my own judgment far more than yours, so I'm more inclined to experience things myself and learn from my experiences instead of taking your so-called "advice."

By the way, remember that this thread is titled "What women want in a man," not "What Peacemaker wants in a woman" or "Peacemaker's long experience as a life coach."

Enjoy the Vaseline....:p
 
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