What's the Best Way to Approach Someone You Might be Sexually Interested In?

[Sapiens]

There was this guy I knew at university. He used to walk up to women and say, "Hi, my name's Dave, wanna f***? He claimed that one out of twelve said, "Yes."

 

[Revoltingest]

There was this guy I knew at university. He used to walk up to women and say, "Hi, my name's Dave, wanna f***? He claimed that one out of twelve said, "Yes."

Anyone prepared to handle overwhelming rejection for the rare success is a born salesman.
Was he a Nigerian prince, by any chance?

 

[Sapiens]

Anyone prepared to handle overwhelming rejection for the rare success is a born salesman.
Was he a Nigerian prince, by any chance?

No,, white guy, not especially good looking, kinda average in most ways.

 

[Revoltingest]

No,, white guy, not especially good looking, kinda average in most ways.

I wouldn't be surprised if some Nigerian princes (there are so many on the internet) are white guys.

 

[MysticSang'ha]

What's the best way to approach someone you're sexually interested in, or that you could be sexually interested in?

Walk in their direction, look them in the eye, smile, and say "hi." Then see if conversation develops sexual tension. If yes, check availability, protection, and consent from both parties.

 

[roger1440]

What's the best way to approach someone you're sexually interested in, or that you could be sexually interested in?

 

[lewisnotmiller]

If yes, check availability, protection, and consent from both parties.

So in terms of what you meant, this totally makes sense.
But the mental image I had was of you picking up some random at a club, asking them if they were up for a little action, and getting a 'Hell yeah'...and then asking yourself the same question in a muttered conversation. Like...out loud. Which just might be enough to send your intended lover running for the hills...lol

Sorry, just the way my brain works.

 

[McBell]

What's the best way to approach someone you're sexually interested in, or that you could be sexually interested in?

Nice tits!
Get in my truck

 

[Unveiled Artist]

What's the best way to approach someone you're sexually interested in, or that you could be sexually interested in?

My approach is a bit tricky since it seems Im the only lesbian in a prod. Christian, straight mini world. It depends on how attracted I am to her too. I could either, after conversation, ask her directly or fall over my nochos

Id probably strick a convo and say lets talk some more sometime. Or maybe, you come here usually.

I dont know much. Guys flock themselves over me more than woman. What can I say?

 

[lewisnotmiller]

There was this guy I knew at university. He used to walk up to women and say, "Hi, my name's Dave, wanna f***? He claimed that one out of twelve said, "Yes."

Back in the day, my brother-in-law used to run with that theory, and I had the 'pleasure' of seeing it in action. It was successful, at least sometimes, and occasionally was almost immediately successful. Then he'd leave with some girl, and all her friends would look at me like I was a creep, since, let's face it, my mate who just landed their friend was clearly a creep.

Ah, good times.

 

[Skwim]

"That's not a gun in my pocket, I'm just glad to see you."

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With apologies to:

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[psychoslice]

Approach them in anyway you like, after all you only want sex, but if you want more than sex, then that's another story.

 

[Glaurung]

Like this.

 

[-Peacemaker-]

What's the best way to approach someone you're sexually interested in, or that you could be sexually interested in?

If it's a man interested in a woman, Just start talking to her as a friend not as someone trying to get in her pants. See if she engages you in conversation. If she shows interest in getting to know you ask her out to something quick and easy like a drink or coffee. If you just want to get laid take her onto a dance floor and pull her in real close. Invite her back to your place for some drinks

 

[-Peacemaker-]

Walk in their direction, look them in the eye, smile, and say "hi." Then see if conversation develops sexual tension. If yes, check availability, protection, and consent from both parties.

This is a pretty good sum up as well. You can feel the sexual connection when you talk to someone and look them in the eye. The interesting thing is that I think women need that connection to take place in order to feel attracted enough to you to come home with you. A woman could go up to a guy and even if there is no sexual chemistry between them at all he will probably go home with her simply because she is a warm body. That's the difference from what I can see between guys and girls. You need to connect with them emotionally to get with them. Like I said, guys just need a warm body...generally speaking of course

 

[Sunstone]

If it's a man interested in a woman, Just start talking to her as a friend not as someone trying to get in her pants.

If a person could absorb one and only one bit of advice about meeting people, taking to heart just this one bit of advice would put them in the 90th percentile of folks who are wise and knowledgeable on this subject. The only thing I'd add to this is a personal preference: I've found that, for myself at least, it's neither wise nor worthwhile to take to bed someone that I do not think would at least potentially make a decent friend. But that could just be me.