I dont know about other people. But i have found that the gay agenda has become more and more aggresive. But....its become aggressive to the point where people find it 'in your face'.
'in your face' is not condusive to change. When anything changes because people feel like they were duped into it..it wont last and they will feel like they HAVE to agree with the gay agenda and afterwards will not feel compelled to love that which they felt forced into doing or agreeing to.
In my experience i have found gay people to be really kind, loving...you know just like many christians, and atheists. So in that way, who they are as a person, can have not preference to who somebody else is as a person. 'gay people are nice so let them marry as well' does not fly with most people. The gardener is nice too..should we let him move in?
For people who really believe in equility, they already see their gay friends as equal to them in both statue and respect. Just like they would respect every other person, even the gardener. Now if those people are faced with 'in your face' gay activism,i think they might be swayed the other way, which is defeating the gay purpose.
Its like your friends who are gay, who talk and chat to you everyday, one day rises up and they are at your doorstep with banners, and protesting....and i'll be thinking....what is this 'force' all about? Insecurity? Bully? No....If anything any more protest from the gay community is going to alienate the heterosexual people who they have been 'friends' with.
Hetereosexual people feel like the gay community wants to move into their house. Its not that we dont respect them as a person, but we dont feel like we have to give to them everything that is ours, simply because they want it.
I guess marriage is perceived by most heterosexuals as something belonging to them. It always has. Now the gay people want it for themselves as well. Try to think what a heterosexual person would feel like sharing his/her house with someone they like even respect, but all of a sudden feels compelled to open their doors to them, simply because they protest and demand it?
More protesting and more aggresive behaviour from the gay community is only going to hurt their agenda.
Heneni