Who's bringing the condom?

[jewscout]

I was just thinking about this reading another topic. Who is responsible for carrying a condom? The man or the woman or both. For the guys out there what do you think about a girl who keeps condoms in supply? Or the girls, what do you think about a guy who keeps a condom with him, even if it's the first date?

 

[SoulTYPE]

Quite often, the male carries a condom in his wallet, expecting his "night out" to be succesful. I merely carry the key to my chastity belt

 

[Green Gaia]

I think both persons should have protection and be prepared, not only with condoms and other items, but by having talked about the situation beforehand, not when it's about to happen.

 

[SoulTYPE]

I agree with Maize. Sex is not something you should rush and go WAM BAM thankyou governor have a nice day, it is a shared emotion for two partners to express their feelings to one another.

 

[jewscout]

I think both persons should have protection and be prepared, not only with condoms and other items, but by having talked about the situation beforehand, not when it's about to happen.

true maize but you know how them crazy kids can be with their beer pong and rock & roll music. Sometimes having a serious discussion is the last thing on their minds.

 

[HelpMe]

i agree that both should be prepared.

though it is not always just an emotional experience.

 

[Green Gaia]

true maize but you know how them crazy kids can be with their beer pong and rock & roll music. Sometimes having a serious discussion is the last thing on their minds.

Absolutely, which is why I think we as a society need to become more comfortable and open about the issue of sex, take the taboo of talking about it away.

 

[jewscout]

Absolutely, which is why I think we as a society need to become more comfortable and open about the issue of sex, take the taboo of talking about it away.

I couldn't agree with you more Maize!:jiggy:

 

[SoulTYPE]

I used to get lonely and hire um..a "Visiting lady". It just doesn't feel the same. I ditched that method and am waiting for the right person. Should she never come, I will still feel alot better knowing I do not need the company of these "visiting ladies".

 

[HelpMe]

is a visiting lady like a maid that cleans?

how'd the advice work with erene?(pm)

 

[SoulTYPE]

No they aren't unless you "pay" them to "become" a maid.

 

[Bastet]

I think both men and women should carry condoms. For ladies who are shy: it's all well and good to just cross your fingers and hope you'll remember to ask the guy a) if he's got protection, and b) to use it. Reality is, unless you shove a condom in his face, in the heat of the moment, it's most likely the last thing on his mind. It'd be great if people had these conversations before the event, but it's not always gonna happen (alcohol being a large factor in the average one night stand, for example). Think like a Boy/Girl Scout - always be prepared! You never know what's gonna happen. Oh, and for those guys who've had the same condom in their wallet since 1992...throw it out you cheap ********, and get a new one!

 

[Sunstone]

Whenever I meet a woman with a condom, I instantly fall in love. I can't help it. It just speaks volumes about her sense of responsibility and foresight. I also think "She must be pretty sophisticated". That's a good thing in my book.

Of course, I never get anywhere with women who have condoms. Or with any women, for that matter. I can't understand why not. I take them out on a date, I buy expensive meals and show tickets for them, I take them back to my apartment, I get on the internet, I show them my favorite website (Bongo Jimmy's "Safari Lust", featuring Bongo Jimmy's sexcapades with most known species of African wildlife), and for some unknown reason they are never in the mood for any romance. I can't understand it.

 

[Bastet]

There's just no understanding some women, Sunstone...

 

[HelpMe]

you have to tell them to buy you dinner.

 

[SoulTYPE]

you have to tell them to buy you dinner.

And then expect the slap in the face.

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