Massimo2002
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Most people that I have talked to on grinder are rude I'm not sure why either I thought that the app is for sex so I don't understand why they get angry when I ask for sex ?
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Why are the people on the app grinder rude ?
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While most people do in fact like to have sex - and that is probably even more true when the scope is that of users of a suitable app - human beings care a whole lot about how exactly communication is attempted and how much consideration for them as people is shown.
It is not a particularly predictable activity, to say the least. Which is another reason why you should be careful and always show a modicum of respect for your interlocutor's feelings, perceptions and say.
Above all else, never forget that sexual access to people is a gift, not a right. It is not supposed to be offered upfront just because you ask. You should attempt to connect to some length first, at least enough to attain mutual trust.
It is easy to be mistrusted, even unfairly, in an environment where there is so much potential for malicious people to use what one says against oneself. Try not to give people reason to be wary of you. Try to listen, be respectful, and sincere yet gentle when it is your turn to speak your mind.
Perhaps most difficult of all, try to be at peace when you meet rejection. Because you will, and it won't even always make sense.
It is not a particularly predictable activity, to say the least. Which is another reason why you should be careful and always show a modicum of respect for your interlocutor's feelings, perceptions and say.
Above all else, never forget that sexual access to people is a gift, not a right. It is not supposed to be offered upfront just because you ask. You should attempt to connect to some length first, at least enough to attain mutual trust.
It is easy to be mistrusted, even unfairly, in an environment where there is so much potential for malicious people to use what one says against oneself. Try not to give people reason to be wary of you. Try to listen, be respectful, and sincere yet gentle when it is your turn to speak your mind.
Perhaps most difficult of all, try to be at peace when you meet rejection. Because you will, and it won't even always make sense.
Lol, that's a new one. Grindr must've changed a ton since I last logged in.