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Why do so many religious people care what others believe?

George-ananda

Advaita Vedanta, Theosophy, Spiritualism
Premium Member
That is a good question. It really is. Why do I care if someone is trying to convert me to whatever faith they follow, and they think less of me if I don't? Is this what you mean?
Correct, why do we care? I think the answer is because we are emotional beings and emotions are hard to control.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
As always I think this is where faith is so important, if we all acknowledge our beliefs as such, whatever they are, we are all open to questioning our own beliefs as well as others

rejecting faith and claiming undeniable truth, intellectual superiority, that's where the problems always begin is it not?
Yes, such a good point. I think that being open minded enough to just listen to what someone else believes, and why they do...can be so amazingly insightful. I never would have thought I'd find value in the LHP. Seriously, I thought it was a demonic path, at one time. But, my eyes have been opened by some amazing people on this site and another site I've joined, and so...what does that hurt to have my mind opened? We lose nothing and gain everything. This fear of appreciating others' faiths makes no sense to me, anymore.
 

David1967

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
I stopped care about others believe,since my stereotypes gone,and i discovered that my religion don't obligate the others to believe .

I think that's the main reason of intiation to be an extremist in same crew or against the others (beliefs).

Absolutely brother. Stereotypes rob people of their humanity in the eyes of those who keep them. We should never regard each other as , that Muslim, or that Christian, or whatever. If we all regard each other as first, human beings and deserving of kindness and respect and then have polite dialogue about our beliefs the world would be a much better place. I know that personally having conversations with you regarding your religion of Islam has given me a much wider and more positive view of your faith. And for that I thank you. :)
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
Hi Godobeyer...what do you mean your stereotypes gone?
In general my understanding to religions or trusting to others religous(non-Muslims) is changed since I came here :)

Unforunetly there is some steoretypes everywhere,for exemple in Arabs community.
All non-Muslims are not trustful,women are not faithful...etc, but they forget that there are many Muslims are not trustful and women are not faithful...

Actualy RF made big impact in my life. :)
It's all about morals and how I being treated by,not about religion tag, or being agree all time,I mean we can't force we other to belief in same way :)
 

Kemosloby

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
Well, considering that many of the US' early Presidents claimed to be Christian and also were slave owners...I think maybe we'd be better off if we were secular from day one.

Presidents still claim to be Christian, mostly Protestant. The only one I know who wasn't was Kennedy and he got shot.
 

Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
Then there are those that say they don't try to change others, but they actually do. In my view, the onus is on the listener 'victim' to decide. You catch more lies with sugar than with vinegar.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
Then there are those that say they don't try to change others, but they actually do. In my view, the onus is on the listener 'victim' to decide. You catch more lies with sugar than with vinegar.
I'll say that when you hold something near to your heart that you believe in, that brings you joy...you want others to have that same joy. So, that makes sense. I get it. And that, is a beautiful thing. If people would express it like that, the exchanges would be better, more fruitful...more open.
 

SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
Seriously, why?

There those, like myself, that want to know how everything works. I took my mini-bike apart to see what makes it go when I was 11. Sure it never ran again after I put it together. Probably because of all of the "extra" parts I had.

I suppose I'm kinda the same way with people. I like to see what makes them tick.
 

Mister Silver

Faith's Nightmare
How do you know where our secular laws would be had there been no religion? Throughout the development of secular law there have been a lot of religious people who contributed to it.

According to anthropology, morality existed before religion. Religion always claims this monopoly on morality when in fact morality can be had without any adherence to religion.
 

Mister Silver

Faith's Nightmare
There those, like myself, that want to know how everything works. I took my mini-bike apart to see what makes it go when I was 11. Sure it never ran again after I put it together. Probably because of all of the "extra" parts I had.

I suppose I'm kinda the same way with people. I like to see what makes them tick.

hehe, Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
Presidents still claim to be Christian, mostly Protestant. The only one I know who wasn't was Kennedy and he got shot.
But, the point is...when I hear that the US was founded on Christian principles, it's sort of embarrassing that slave ownership, the slaughtering of American Indians, women not being permitted to vote, etc...is part of the history that runs parallel to ''Christian principles.'' What were these Christian principles? It seems to me that only a certain group was privileged (not a word I like, but it fits here) while others...like African Americans, native Americans and women were not treated equal. I can't see Jesus in any of that, you know?
 

osgart

Nothing my eye, Something for sure
I care about what others believe for a different reason. I would hope the majority of people would believe things that are civil and don't impede on just freedoms that we have.

there are right and wrongs in a general sense that apply to everybody, but beyond those, believe whatever you wish, and live as you please.

when someone expects conformity , I say I have free will to reject or accept any of it, the freedom not to be forced into anything.

I conform to the basics of morality in general, but beyond that evidence is needed so I can weight it's validity.

I find it hard to understand people who don't have basic simple universals of moral conduct; it makes me believe they just want what they want, regardless of its right or wrong implications. they seem to think they can tread on whomever they like, as long as it suits them.

I realize not all consciences are the same, but there is an underlying truth that has nothing to do with religion as it's known. nobody owns the truth, but life itself, lives and dies because of it. either chaos or order, civilty, or mayhem.

evidence must support the justification, some things are self evident, and others are revealed otherwise. to me that is an absolute.
 
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Deidre

Well-Known Member
There those, like myself, that want to know how everything works. I took my mini-bike apart to see what makes it go when I was 11. Sure it never ran again after I put it together. Probably because of all of the "extra" parts I had.

I suppose I'm kinda the same way with people. I like to see what makes them tick.
Me too. But, you let it end there. You don't try to change people.
 

SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
As I go deeper into this thread, I'm seeing the issue is less with "caring what others believe" than it is about proselytizing.

It has been my experience that healthy discussion between or among people with different beliefs about these beliefs can be quite productive and exhilarating.

The issue arises when one person believes his/her beliefs are more correct than another's and s/he begins to tell another how s/he should believe.
 

Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
I'll say that when you hold something near to your heart that you believe in, that brings you joy...you want others to have that same joy. So, that makes sense. I get it. And that, is a beautiful thing. If people would express it like that, the exchanges would be better, more fruitful...more open.

That's making the huge assumption that the other person would get great joy out of what you do/believe. It's like offering someone chocolate (assuming you LOVE chocolate) when they may not like chocolate.
 

David1967

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
But, the point is...when I hear that the US was founded on Christian principles, it's sort of embarrassing that slave ownership, the slaughtering of American Indians, women not being permitted to vote, etc...is part of the history that runs parallel to ''Christian principles.'' What were these Christian principles? It seems to me that only a certain group was privileged (not a word I like, but it fits here) while others...like African Americans, native Americans and women were not treated equal. I can't see Jesus in any of that, you know?

It has been my experience 100% of the time, in business and personal life that those who boast of their Christian principles have none. You want me to know of your faith? Show me by your actions toward others, don't tell me. Actions speak much louder than words, as the saying goes.
 

Jesster

Friendly skeptic
Premium Member
As I go deeper into this thread, I'm seeing the issue is less with "caring what others believe" than it is about proselytizing.

It has been my experience that healthy discussion between or among people with different beliefs about these beliefs can be quite productive and exhilarating.

The issue arises when one person believes his/her beliefs are more correct than another's and s/he beings to tell another how s/he should believe.
I'm going to have to agree with you here. Actions are what really bother me. Believe what you want, but be careful about pushing it on others. I actually enjoy reading about religious beliefs when believers aren't making an obvious attempt to convert me. Healthy discussion is how you'll actually get through to me because that's when I'm actually enjoying the conversation.
 
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