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Why do you see others as your enemy?

Spirit of Light

Be who ever you want
I am not making this OP to disrespect fallen soldiers or their family. I would not want to disrespect anyone who fallen in war.

But.
People speak of those people are my enemy or that country is our enemy. But have you been there to meet the people who you call enemy? Have they personally hurt you? ( if you been deployed in war, I get it, you would see them as enemy and I don't blame you for that, thank you for your service)

But for us who never come across the people we supposedly "have to see as enemy" in real life.
What make it possible to personally call someone you never met your enemy? This is what I do not understand.

I make the tread to understand where the "enemy" of our fellow human beings arise.
 

Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
I am not making this OP to disrespect fallen soldiers or their family. I would not want to disrespect anyone who fallen in war.

But.
People speak of those people are my enemy or that country is our enemy. But have you been there to meet the people who you call enemy? Have they personally hurt you? ( if you been deployed in war, I get it, you would see them as enemy and I don't blame you for that, thank you for your service)

But for us who never come across the people we supposedly "have to see as enemy" in real life.
What make it possible to personally call someone you never met your enemy? This is what I do not understand.

I make the tread to understand where the "enemy" of our fellow human beings arise.

I believe many people, if not most, feel they have no enemies on a personal level. But on a more global mindset, the planet has enemies in fundamentalism, global warming deniers, and the like. So if you feel it's your duty to look out for humanity, you could see it that way. About the only action one can take, besides acting responsibly personally, is to vote.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
But why call them enemy? Disagree about their action, yes. But enemy?
They are enemy.
Hostile & thieving behavior earned them this status.
I roil with rage....which is always better than raging roids.

Note:
This is half a dozen or so people on a planet of many billions.
I have no political or religious enemies.
Although....I do have some dedicated foes (from their perspective).
I try to avoid interacting with them, preferring pleasant discourse.
 

McBell

Unbound
I am not making this OP to disrespect fallen soldiers or their family. I would not want to disrespect anyone who fallen in war.

But.
People speak of those people are my enemy or that country is our enemy. But have you been there to meet the people who you call enemy? Have they personally hurt you? ( if you been deployed in war, I get it, you would see them as enemy and I don't blame you for that, thank you for your service)

But for us who never come across the people we supposedly "have to see as enemy" in real life.
What make it possible to personally call someone you never met your enemy? This is what I do not understand.

I make the tread to understand where the "enemy" of our fellow human beings arise.
How do you define the word "enemy"?

I suspect that you will find as many definitions as there are people.
Some people think of enemy as someone who must be eliminated at all costs.
Others think of an enemy as any who merely disagree with them.
And of course, there are all the positions in between these two.
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
I am not making this OP to disrespect fallen soldiers or their family. I would not want to disrespect anyone who fallen in war.

But.
People speak of those people are my enemy or that country is our enemy. But have you been there to meet the people who you call enemy? Have they personally hurt you? ( if you been deployed in war, I get it, you would see them as enemy and I don't blame you for that, thank you for your service)

But for us who never come across the people we supposedly "have to see as enemy" in real life.
What make it possible to personally call someone you never met your enemy? This is what I do not understand.

I make the tread to understand where the "enemy" of our fellow human beings arise.

I don't consider anyone I've never my an enemy.

I shall qualify that, i dont consider anyone i don't know about an enemy. For various reasons i have never met billions of people but some few of those people i know about, politicians for example, and some of them make my skin crawl
 

Spirit of Light

Be who ever you want
How do you define the word "enemy"?

I suspect that you will find as many definitions as there are people.
Some people think of enemy as someone who must be eliminated at all costs.
Others think of an enemy as any who merely disagree with them.
And of course, there are all the positions in between these two.
People from other countries
 

Secret Chief

Veteran Member
if you been deployed in war, I get it, you would see them as enemy and I don't blame you for that, thank you for your service)
and
"But for us who never come across the people we supposedly "have to see as enemy" in real life.
What make it possible to personally call someone you never met your enemy?"

I can't see your distinction with civilian life. Soldiers invariably kill people they do not know. That is their job.
Also, it is common for the people of an "enemy country" to be demonised and/or made out to be inferior and/or made to seem less than human by the propaganda machine: makes it easier to kill.
 

Quagmire

Imaginary talking monkey
Staff member
Premium Member
Anyone who for any reason wishes me or mine harm is my enemy.

Anyone who seeks to profit at my expense is also my enemy, even if they don't specifically wish me any ill will.

Calling someone "enemy" just identifies them as a threat, it doesn't necessarily require hatred or animosity on either part.
 

Spirit of Light

Be who ever you want
Isn't that a definition of "foreigner", not "enemy."
Yes but the problem I see is that some people or government say example people from Arabic countries are enemies, or people from China is our enemy. But are all Arabic and Chinese people their enemy? Or is it because someone told them that they are?
 

Secret Chief

Veteran Member
Yes but the problem I see is that some people or government say example people from Arabic countries are enemies, or people from China is our enemy. But are all Arabic and Chinese people their enemy? Or is it because someone told them that they are?
Politics is war without the bullets. The citizenry and soldiers need to think what the governments want them to think (for various reasons - resources, status, domestic distraction, the leader is an idiot...)
 

JustGeorge

Imperfect
Staff member
Premium Member
I can't think of someone in another country as my enemy. I have never been to another country, so have no reason to feel that kind of emotion towards anyone in another country. If I disagree with a country's politics or culture, I remember that I don't usually agree with my own country's politics or culture, so the views being presented of another place's government or ideals doesn't necessarily accurately represent of the average citizen in that country.
 
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