Trailblazer
Veteran Member
I told you I would come back and answer the rest of this later and I have a few minutes wile waiting for dinner so here I am......
So if we have a bad attitude we will suffer but if we have a good attitude we will be grateful for tests as Abdu'l-Baha said, but if we did not even suffer it would not be a test would it? I would be being so detached that nothing bothers me, and this is turning me into some kind of a robot. I am turning into a robot because otherwise I won't survive all the pain I am in and have been in for a long time.... Is this what God wants, or doesn't He even give a rip? Sorry Duane, I cannot believe a God like that is loving, even though I am stuck believing He exists because of Baha'u'llah.
All this intellectualizing leaves no room for having feelings. Moreover, we are just supposed to believe that everything that happens is for our own good when we do not even know if it was ordained by God or just some free will decision that was wrong so now we have to pay the consequences of our actions. How can we ever know the difference?
I believe in Baha'u'llah and know He was a Manifestation of God because there is so much evidence I cannot deny, but I should probably read more of the Writings because I cannot make sense of a loving God that allows so much suffering, and its for everyone's own good just does not cut it for me. This is not just about me, there are so many people who suffer through no fault of their own, just because of life circumstances, like what is happening with Covid-19, and it is hit and miss -- one person lives, another dies.
How could we ever know if God is sending trials vs. something just being our fate because it was ordained?I believe He does sometimes send trials to people. That doesn't mean that all trials are sent by God. We can't know which is which. He is all-powerful and can send whatever trials He wants to. Baha'u'llah Himself has said that God does whatsoever He pleases, and we are to accept whatever He ordains:
O Son of Spirit!
Ask not of Me that which We desire not for thee, then be content with what We have ordained for thy sake, for this is that which profiteth thee, if therewith thou dost content thyself.
Bahá’u’lláh, "The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh", a18
In my opinion "ordained" refers to both His commandments and events in our life. It profiting us depends on our attitude towards them. This also shows that those who suffer the most have the opportunity to advance the most, but it depends on their attitude. There's no reason to get mad at God for sending some trials to us if we have faith that the trials He sends us is ultimately for our own good.
So if we have a bad attitude we will suffer but if we have a good attitude we will be grateful for tests as Abdu'l-Baha said, but if we did not even suffer it would not be a test would it? I would be being so detached that nothing bothers me, and this is turning me into some kind of a robot. I am turning into a robot because otherwise I won't survive all the pain I am in and have been in for a long time.... Is this what God wants, or doesn't He even give a rip? Sorry Duane, I cannot believe a God like that is loving, even though I am stuck believing He exists because of Baha'u'llah.
All this intellectualizing leaves no room for having feelings. Moreover, we are just supposed to believe that everything that happens is for our own good when we do not even know if it was ordained by God or just some free will decision that was wrong so now we have to pay the consequences of our actions. How can we ever know the difference?
I believe in Baha'u'llah and know He was a Manifestation of God because there is so much evidence I cannot deny, but I should probably read more of the Writings because I cannot make sense of a loving God that allows so much suffering, and its for everyone's own good just does not cut it for me. This is not just about me, there are so many people who suffer through no fault of their own, just because of life circumstances, like what is happening with Covid-19, and it is hit and miss -- one person lives, another dies.