No. Things like morality vary from place to place and from time to time, what is considered family varies from place to place and from time to time (today, in America and throughout the Western culture, we have what is one of the most limited and narrow definitions about what family is when compared to other cultures and times). Many people are not charitable and promote ideas such as Social Darwinism (not to be confused with Darwinian/Natural Selection evolution).
Your stance is far too simple, and is a logical fallacy to state that, because there are a handful of similarities that are found throughout all cultures, your own personal god is behind it all. If your God, or any god, was behind it all and deliberately made us all the same then we would all be in agreeance as to whom should receive charity, our ideas of family would not be changed (and we would all still live together with, or within very close proximitey to, what we in the West call "distant" family rather than sending everyone on their own separate way), and the cases for objective morality would be strong rather than weak.