Why kids are wiser than adults: how sex deforms psyche

[Estro Felino]

The title is thought-provoking, I know.
The truth is that it's absolutely inherent to what some philosophists have affirmed throughout the centuries: that children are purer than adults because they haven't known sex yet. Sex transforms people into greedy, and sex-hungry people.
It's a fact. Just read Freud's Lustprinzip and then also Totem und Tabu.

In most people the sexual development turns all kids into greedy people with the Omnipotence delirium. Or God's complex. They believe that their own sexuality comes first, and from that derives entitlement and pridefulness.


In very few people the knowledge of sexuality and sex development are idealized through a kind of katharsis, that is why they don't become greedy but see sex as something to share, something idealized.

Unfortunately it's lust and sex-hungry that transforms adults into beasts who are capable of violence and sadism.

 

[Regiomontanus]

The title is thought-provoking, I know.
The truth is that it's absolutely inherent to what some philosophists have affirmed throughout the centuries: that children are purer than adults because they haven't known sex yet. Sex transforms people into greedy, and sex-hungry people.
It's a fact. Just read Freud's Lustprinzip and then also Totem und Tabu.

In most people the sexual development turns all kids into greedy people with the Omnipotence delirium. Or God's complex. They believe that their own sexuality comes first, and from that derives entitlement and pridefulness.


In very few people the knowledge of sexuality and sex development are idealized through a kind of katharsis, that is why they don't become greedy but see sex as something to share, something to share. Something idealized.

Unfortunately it's lust and sex-hungry that transforms adults into beasts who are capable of violence and sadism.

My only significant point of disagreement with what you posted is the use of the word 'smart' in the title.

 

[Argentbear]

The title is thought-provoking, I know.
The truth is that it's absolutely inherent to what some philosophists have affirmed throughout the centuries: that children are purer than adults because they haven't known sex yet. Sex transforms people into greedy, and sex-hungry people.
It's a fact. Just read Freud's Lustprinzip and then also Totem und Tabu.

In most people the sexual development turns all kids into greedy people with the Omnipotence delirium. Or God's complex. They believe that their own sexuality comes first, and from that derives entitlement and pridefulness.


In very few people the knowledge of sexuality and sex development are idealized through a kind of katharsis, that is why they don't become greedy but see sex as something to share, something idealized.

Unfortunately it's lust and sex-hungry that transforms adults into beasts who are capable of violence and sadism.

and how do you explain violence and sadism observed in children?

 

[Estro Felino]

When I was a kid....I could not understand why adults used to consider children all inferior in reason.
I could not understand why they were so strict and why they used to belittle us all. In a very humiliating way.
They considered themselves gods. And we were nothing.

Then I discovered sex, and I understood how low adults can stoop, when they feel certain urges.
I really felt disgust towards all adults. I felt like vomiting, thinking of how proud and prideful they were with kids, as if they were gods, and then they rolled in their beds having sex...losing that spiritual halo.

From that moment on, I started considering adults as people with God's complex, who can't understand that they have sex like animals do, so they should grow up, and come down from that pedestal.

 

[Estro Felino]

and how do you explain violence and sadism observed in children?

Very, very rare.
I never met a sadistic child.
It usually deals with children with neurological issues or maybe someone taught them.

 

[The Hammer]

This has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with the brain's developmental stages.

Also kids are notoriously evil self centered little ****s, who are no purer then the rest of us.

Just watch a kid angry about not getting their way smash their siblings face in with a plastic train (my brother and sister at 3 and 5).

 

[The Hammer]

When I was a kid....I could not understand why adults used to consider children all inferior in reason.
I could not understand why they were so strict and why they used to belittle us all. In a very humiliating way.
They considered themselves gods. And we were nothing.

Your parents sucked (sorry to hear that)

Then I discovered sex, and I understood how low adults can stoop, when they feel certain urges.
I really felt disgust towards all adults. I felt like vomiting, thinking of how proud and prideful they were with kids, as if they were gods, and then they rolled in their beds having sex...losing that spiritual halo.

*Facepalm*

From that moment on, I started considering adults as people with God's complex, who can't understand that they have sex like animals do, so they should grow up, and come down to that pedestal.

Your personality makes more sense now.

 

[The Hammer]

It usually deals with children with neurological issues or maybe someone taught them.

Not really.

"Aggressive feelings and behaviors are a normal aspect of development in early childhood, with peaks at 18 months, 21/2 years, and 4 years."

It's standard development

 

[The Hammer]

"Aggression develops early in life and in most cases demonstrates a gradual decline over the first five years of life. Most children learn to inhibit aggressive behaviours and replace them with prosocial skills that develop over the course of early childhood."

The Development and Socialization of Aggression During the First Five Years of Life | Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development

Aggression co-occurs with several common problems in early childhood including impulsivity, emotion dysregulation and language delays.

www.child-encyclopedia.com

The problem is most adults don't know how to deal with aggression from a child. So they fight fire with fire, get authoritative and aggressive in return ("I'm the boss, I'm in charge," hit or smack to create forced compliance etc).

This does not foster the development of pro social skills and actively inhibits the child from developing it appropriately. This is why so many adults can't handle their own emotions. They were smacked or ignored into submission.


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[Father Heathen]

Very, very rare.
I never met a sadistic child.
It usually deals with children with neurological issues or maybe someone taught them.

Unfortunately, bullying among kids isn't rare at all.

 

[The Hammer]

Once I saw two old people (they were 70-80 years old at least)....entering a sexy shop.
I told them: you guys are so gross.

I'm sorry to hear that you disapprove of consensual sex between loving elders.

I shouldn't have...I know. But I have this condition that makes me say whatever I think....in real life.

Admittance of the issue is the first step to becoming a better changed person.

 

[Argentbear]

Very, very rare.
I never met a sadistic child.
It usually deals with children with neurological issues or maybe someone taught them.

Sadly not all that rare and if you have never met such a child you are very lucky

 

[The Hammer]

The problem is that I distinguish beautiful from ugly, and beauty is truth,

What a sad ****ing statement. Your on my ignore list now. You may think you're beautiful on the outside, but your insides are the ugliest thing I've ever read on this forum.

Below all the racism and bigotry, and hatred here.... Is you.

 

[Father Heathen]

The problem is that I distinguish beautiful from ugly, and beauty is truth,

They should understand that they don't look "good" seen from the outside. That's what beauty is, in love:

True love and true beauty transcend the surface. One thing that's certainly ugly is shallow, superficial judgement. They're not going to bed with you, so why would they need to "understand" your petty, frivolous nonsense?

 

[Shadow Wolf]

The title is thought-provoking

No it's not.

The truth is that it's absolutely inherent to what some philosophists have affirmed throughout the centuries: that children are purer than adults because they haven't known sex yet. Sex transforms people into greedy, and sex-hungry people.
It's a fact. Just read Freud's Lustprinzip and then also Totem und Tabu.

Some kids have killed. It's not a fact they are "purer." They lie, they cheat, they steal, they bully, they hurt others. Saying they are "pure" ignores they are human and replaces the humans they are with a unrealistic and very romanticized image.
Also, there's no evidence sex corrupts people. That's Christian dogma.

In most people the sexual development turns all kids into greedy people with the Omnipotence delirium. Or God's complex. They believe that their own sexuality comes first, and from that derives entitlement and pridefulness.

Yeah, no. I've done a lot to help raise my nieces and nephews. There were a few times my sister was afraid to sent her kids to school because her kids would get into a nasty and fight that left bruises and welts. No thoughts of sex, just sibling conflict and violence that is far from rare.

 

[Estro Felino]

No it's not.

Some kids have killed. It's not a fact they are "purer." They lie, they cheat, they steal, they bully, they hurt others. Saying they are "pure" ignores they are human and replaces the humans they are with a unrealistic and very romanticized image.
Also, there's no evidence sex corrupts people. That's Christian dogma.

Yeah, no. I've done a lot to help raise my nieces and nephews. There were a few times my sister was afraid to sent her kids to school because her kids would get into a nasty and fight that left bruises and welts. No thoughts of sex, just sibling conflict and violence that is far from rare.

This is a very intellectual thread. Philosophy.
I would appreciate if you guys didn't trivialize it.

The origin of evil is linked to a very unhealthy and addictive relation people have to sex. Read Freud's Das Lustprinzip.
Have you ever read one (at least one) Freud's book?

 

[Shadow Wolf]

This is a very intellectual thread. Philosophy.
I would appreciate if you guys didn't trivialize it.

The origin of evil is linked to a very unhealthy and addictive relation people have to sex. Read Freud's Das Lustprinzip.
Have you ever read one (at least one) Freud's book?

Your demonization of sex is tragic Abrahamic dogna. Sex doesn't magically transform us into anti-social bafoons, and children are not pure or innocent angels.
This isn't an intellectual thread, it isn't philosophical, and by the way, Frued is a hack who has been largely, widely and mostly debunked and discarded. Or, to put it this way, do you envy those with a penis because you don't have one and want one yourself?

 

[Shadow Wolf]

This is a very intellectual thread. Philosophy.
I would appreciate if you guys didn't trivialize it.

The origin of evil is linked to a very unhealthy and addictive relation people have to sex. Read Freud's Das Lustprinzip.
Have you ever read one (at least one) Freud's book?

Or think of it this way, when I was a child I was bullied so severely by other children, none of us sexually active or interested, and still early in what the English would consider primary school I started having suicidal ideations. Yes, as a young child, not even a teenager yet, and I wanted to die and began contemplated killing myself.
Kids are not pure or innocent.

 

[Estro Felino]

Your demonization of sex is tragic Abrahamic dogna. Sex doesn't magically transform us into anti-social bafoons, and children are not pure or innocent angels.
This isn't an intellectual thread, it isn't philosophical, and by the way, Frued is a hack who has been largely, widely and mostly debunked and discarded.

But what a coincidence...Freud was a long chapter in my high school philosophy book and my thesis was about him.

Or, to put it this way, do you envy those with a penis because you don't have one and want one yourself?

No... because I consider men complementary to me, I don't envy them because, if I need a male body, I will have sex with a man.

 

[Estro Felino]

Or think of it this way, when I was a child I was bullied so severely by other children, none of us sexually active or interested, and still early in what the English would consider primary school I started having suicidal ideations. Yes, as a young child, not even a teenager yet, and I wanted to die and began contemplated killing myself.
Kids are not pure or innocent.

I am sorry to hear that...but most LGBTs are bullied by idiots.
One should get used to it and grow an armor to shield oneself.

The problem here is that adults can be much worse...