Are you saying you believe Israel hasn't done any "provoking" of its own? Israel swats flies with a baseball bat, and always has.
What specifically did Israel do to threaten Iran? does Israel call Iran 'the little Satan'? does Israel threaten to wipe Iran off the map? does Israel claim Shiite Muslim are behind a global conspiracy for world domination?
as far as Israel was concerned business as usual before the Islamic revolution would be the ideal, when Israel was an ally to Iran.
From my POV, you're all as crazy and violent as each other.
Like I said before. your knowledge and experience with the middle east is minimal.
Israel is the safest nation for gays in the middle east while Iranian gays are being hanged from cranes in the streets of Tehran, Israel is one of the best nations in the world to live as a gay person. Israel not only allowed Arab women the right to vote before many other Arab and Muslim nations, but allowed Arabs into the Israeli parliament and indeed into positions of ministers.
Israel has offered its world renown aid services in times of natural disasters even to 'enemy states'. Israel holds an amazingly free press, not only in total contradiction to the spirit of media dictatorship and indoctrination in the nations around it, but such a free press in such sensitive scenarios, that all western nations can learn from. Israel is a leading force in medicine, it sends Israeli experts to third world nations to revolutionize their agriculture and to help them medically, and to provide ecological and water solutions.
No, Israel is not crazy or violent. it is a normal nation in a crazy region. it is so anachronistic in this region that many dictators simply cant conceptualize the idea of co existence in a region with hundreds of millions of people with mere 6 million Jews, who would open their gates to knowledge and promote an interest to develop this region.