Any agent that has the power to prevent gratuitous suffering and fails to do so cannot be called a good God. But to come to such a conclusion, must one think from premises such as one's moral values, and evidence, to conclusions using fallacy-free reasoning applied dispassionately with a willingness to go where the argument takes him even if the conclusion isn't what he would prefer it to be. The remainder of my answer is in the next section.
Yes, that is how faith manifests.
This is the other way of thinking. One begins with the belief that God is good by faith, and so there is no way to answer your question but yes, God is good. He just needs to devise a rationalization for why what appears to be bad to those not assuming that it is good is actually good. Examples are offered such as that of a baby throwing a tantrum at the site of a needle in the pediatrician's office, who would judge the jab as evil only because he cannot see the greater good. And so we see similar attempts to argue how a pandemic is actually a good and just thing for mankind. Some will see it as a cleansing, some as a just reward for sinful behavior, some might even say it strengthens the surviving population or targets people that the Lord needs in heaven or that deserve punishment.
This system of thought is called Divine Command theory, which posits that good is defined by what the deity says or does. The problem is that this deity, if it exists, isn't speaking for itself. Others are, and if they want to justify any abomination whatsoever, all they need do is convince the faithful that it is God's will, and they will find a way to see it as good.
This is why Steven Weinberg said, "
Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it, you'd have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. For good people to do evil things, it takes religion." How else are you going to make them see evil as good?
This link ought to take you to the 13m19s time mark in this video, where the following discussion can be found between two atheists on a cable show out of Austin are taking calls from theists. If the link doesn't actually take you to that mark (sometimes it doesn't), and you want to see this but not necessarily all 15 minutes of it, jump ahead manually to :
Tracie (atheist host): "
You either have a God who sends child rapists to rape children or you have a God who simply watches it and says, 'When you're done, I'm going to punish you' .. If I were in a situation where I could stop a person from raping a child, I would. That's the difference between me and your God."
Shane (Christian caller): "
True to life, you portray that little girl as someone who is innocent. She's just as evil as you."
This fellow is forced to choose between his God being evil and the little girl being evil and the rape a just reward for something she must have done, just as the victims of the flood and Sodom and Gomorrah must have deserved their fate and therefore must have deserved to die. This is what Weinberg was referring to when he said that religion can make a person who means well view the child victim of rape as evil and deserving of rape. This is the result of this backward way of thinking where one begins with what might have been a conclusion if it were correct and the evidence supported it, and makes it a premise. The possibility of concluding an evil God is eliminated.
Incidentally, the other host went ballistic after Shane's response. I didn't reproduce his words here because they were a little salty.
@Conscious thoughts : what would be your answer to Tracie's comment about the rape of the child? Do you agree with the caller? Do you agree with either host?