Rapists and free will?

[VoidCat]

There are a lot of misunderstandings of consent, which is why we need to be taught it starting at a young age.

Exactly. For example something I learnt recently would be useful to teach is body language can be used to say stop. Cuz see im a partial mute so I was trying to figure out how would I withdraw consent if I went mute during sex with someone or something like that . And I figured out I could always create a gesture agreed upon with said partner that means stop. And this made me realize tho I ain't thought of it consciously tho I knew until then that body language is a part of consent in general which would be important to teach kids. Like some rapists try to defend themselves say oh they didn't say no. But like that person didn't say yes nor did they indicate they wanted it with body language. In fact their body language probably indicated the opposite.

I wonder how many rapes could be avoided if we actually teach consent right.

 

[Suave]

Also, I have learned how to associate sexual gratification with fantasies of doing no harm to others, and change the habit completely, into thoughts of doing good deeds for my Queen of Heaven, and praying for her exaltation as I climax, to turn it into an offering, a game someone else can enjoy, not merely just self gratification. An act of love and devotion. The Catholic church already calls acts of short love to God or the Saints "Spiritual ejaculation!"

It actually completely revolutionized my sexuality. I'm totally not even remotely close to being a sadist and am deeply compassionate these days.

All thanks be to my lady friends in Heaven!

But best to keep masturbation to a minimum , and have purity of thoughts and innocence. I mentioned elsewhere, excessive masturbation causes earthquakes in third world countries!

All things in moderation! Especially that!

Cyproterone acetate (CPA), medroxyprogesterone acetate (MPA) and LHRH might very well be effective at reducing somebody's urge to rape.

Khan O, Ferriter M, Huband N, Powney MJ, Dennis JA, Duggan C (February 2015). "Pharmacological interventions for those who have sexually offended or are at risk of offending". Cochrane Database Syst Rev (2): CD007989.

Light SA, Holroyd S (March 2006). "The use of medroxyprogesterone acetate for the treatment of sexually inappropriate behaviour in patients with dementia" (PDF). Journal of Psychiatry & Neuroscience. 31 (2): 132–4. PMC 1413960. PMID 16575429. Archived (PDF) from the original on 7 March 2016.

The chemical knife". Archived from the original on 7 January 2009. Retrieved 22 January 2009.

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[Spiderman]

Cyproterone acetate (CPA), medroxyprogesterone acetate (MPA) and LHRH might very well be effective at reducing somebody's urge to rape.

Khan O, Ferriter M, Huband N, Powney MJ, Dennis JA, Duggan C (February 2015). "Pharmacological interventions for those who have sexually offended or are at risk of offending". Cochrane Database Syst Rev (2): CD007989.

Light SA, Holroyd S (March 2006). "The use of medroxyprogesterone acetate for the treatment of sexually inappropriate behaviour in patients with dementia" (PDF). Journal of Psychiatry & Neuroscience. 31 (2): 132–4. PMC 1413960. PMID 16575429. Archived (PDF) from the original on 7 March 2016.

The chemical knife". Archived from the original on 7 January 2009. Retrieved 22 January 2009.

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Thanks, but I don't have bad fantasies anymore, avoid internet porn, and rarely masturbate (it has been over three weeks).

In view of that, how would those supplements actually help me, and why would they be needed?

A sexual fantasy for me is doing deeds of charity and giving pleasure to my Queen of Heaven. How is that bad?

I changed the habit of what I associate sexual gratification with, with what I believe to be helpers in Heaven, to transform my sexuality , and what gives me gratification , into deeds of charity, acts of love, offerings, tenderness, devotion!

I will say it is weird and sounds bizzare, but can we say it is worse than the average male sexual fantasy, or even qualifies as immoral??

Also, since I rarely even think about sex as of recent, and fornication , porn, and masturbation, has not even been a temptation for almost a month, what good would those supplements do?

What exactly would they be treating in the first place?

 

[The Hammer]

Thanks, but I don't have bad fantasies anymore, avoid internet porn, and rarely masturbate (it has been over three weeks).

In view of that, how would those supplements actually help me, and why would they be needed?

A sexual fantasy for me is doing deeds of charity and giving pleasure to my Queen of Heaven. How is that bad?

I changed the habit of what I associate sexual gratification with, with what I believe to be helpers in Heaven, to transform my sexuality , and what gives me gratification , into deeds of charity, acts of love, offerings, tenderness, devotion!

I will say it is weird and sounds bizzare, but can we say it is worse than the average male sexual fantasy, or even qualifies as immoral??

Also, since I rarely even think about sex as of recent, and fornication , porn, and masturbation, has not even been a temptation for almost a month, what good would those supplements do?

What exactly would they be treating in the first place?

Sounds like you need a healthy dose of:

 

[The Hammer]

What exactly would they be treating in the first place?

It's typically for people who cannot control their sexual urges, to give them these, if they are harming others. It's chemical castration.

 

[Spiderman]

It's typically for people who cannot control their sexual urges, to give them these, if they are harming others. It's chemical castration.

I have never had serious temptation or come close to harming some one sexually, in real life.

 

[The Hammer]

I have never had serious temptation or come close to harming some one sexually, in real life.

That's good!

I can't say the same, I don't think.

 

[VoidCat]

Cyproterone acetate (CPA), medroxyprogesterone acetate (MPA) and LHRH might very well be effective at reducing somebody's urge to rape.

Khan O, Ferriter M, Huband N, Powney MJ, Dennis JA, Duggan C (February 2015). "Pharmacological interventions for those who have sexually offended or are at risk of offending". Cochrane Database Syst Rev (2): CD007989.

Light SA, Holroyd S (March 2006). "The use of medroxyprogesterone acetate for the treatment of sexually inappropriate behaviour in patients with dementia" (PDF). Journal of Psychiatry & Neuroscience. 31 (2): 132–4. PMC 1413960. PMID 16575429. Archived (PDF) from the original on 7 March 2016.

The chemical knife". Archived from the original on 7 January 2009. Retrieved 22 January 2009.

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I wonder if those actually work. I'll read those links later

 

[Spiderman]

That's good!

I can't say the same, I don't think.

Well,
I mean I didn't do so illegally.

I have had two sexually transmitted diseases, and I have used emotionally disturbed, addicted women, and fornicated, so in that sense, I harmed them.

Just not illegally.

But , if you have temptations to hurt people sexually, it is extremely hard to know who to trust to talk about it.

Please PM me, I'll give you my phone # and you can call or text me any time if you feel an urge to do harm to others in such a way.

I have tremendous compassion for people who are tortured with temptations to do dark things, and it has always been my dream to help them, in some way.

I'm very serious though. I have struggled with deeply disturbing desires all my life that would make most people's hair stand on end.

Id be happy to share with you how I overcame it, or leave my info for any person afflicted with such desires, to call me.

I will be a friend who doesn't judge. I have been very sick, troubled, and disturbed.

I care about you!

 

[The Hammer]

Id be happy to share with you how I overcame it, or leave my info for any person afflicted with such desires, to call me.

I will be a friend who doesn't judge. I have been very sick, troubled, and disturbed.

I care about you!

I appreciate your care and concern. I don't struggle with urges to harm others.

But I do struggle with guilt over some of the things I have done.

 

[VoidCat]

But I do struggle with guilt over some of the things I have done

You can't change the past you can only learn and move forward. (Hugs)

 

[The Hammer]

You can't change the past you can only learn and move forward. (Hugs)

Much easier said then done I'm afraid.

 

[VoidCat]

Much easier said then done I'm afraid.

True enough.

 

[Spiderman]

I appreciate your care and concern. I don't struggle with urges to harm others.

But I do struggle with guilt over some of the things I have done.

Me too my friend!

It is an extremely excruciating crown of thorns I wear, and a heavy cross I carry, knowing that I have hurt a lot of people!

It's one of the reasons why I get so angry at God. If I received The graces that I pray for, and I received those virtues, and received those strengths and instructions, I would not hurt anyone else, and I never would have hurt people in the first place.

Being as wounded and as dark and sinister as I can be, I have great fear and apprehension, that I am unstable enough, that I could hurt and offend more people in the future.

I'm not talking about sexual offenses, but I do have a tendency to scare, worry, frighten, offend, bother, or sicken others, sometimes even with the best of intentions!

I pray that God would give me the maturity, the healing, the mental and emotional stability, and the enlightenment to never hurt another person, and to be a Healer in this world!