Man, I can totally understand where you're coming from about Islam. As much as I admire it, I don't think I'm cut out for all the baggage that follows it, and a few doctrines are things I don't believe, like hell -- much less eternally for disbelief. I could possibly even deal with annihilation for non-believers, but I'd find that a bit meh. I'm too much of a universalist.
Episcopalian is worth looking at, then; I've never known of a "turn or burn" or other sermon in an Anglican church. Shame there are no Quakers around, but even with Quakers I have a few issues; I like a bit of ritual and tradition.
Eastern Orthodoxy is just awesome. If you can find anything on it at a local library, it's good stuff. It's a bit Trinitarian-y for me (I've never cared for the concept of the Trinity, really), but Eastern Orthodoxy just has some great understanding of scripture.
Have you ever looked at Reform Judaism, either? I'd seriously have considered RJ if there were any Jews where I lived.