OK I have read your thread properly, I think that the problem was that many thought like me (that you were trolling) so I think thats why you faced so much hostility.
With regard to some of your views I think (now remember this is my opinion only) you should "just be" rather than trying to plan too much ahead for the future i.e. how much money you will need, how you will school your kids, who will work etc. I think people (who did read your thread properly) were trying to tell you this too.
For my part, I was rather shocked (not in a bad way, just in a general sense) by some of the questions you asked as I was taught some of this in Sex Ed and also my friends and I used to get information from older kids at school who would tell us things. I do not fully understand your condition but I will make a point in doing some research so that I can understand more.
But anyway, I hope you are ok and I'm so glad that you came back to the site, your stronger than many people and are intelligent with it so you will go far. Please feel free to drop me a message on my profile page anytime. (And I will not think you're a troll
this time)