The goal is not to hurt the child but a stern NO and a swat on the butt tells them it is bad and not to do it again or be punished. Just the act of doing it is enough for them to understand. IMO.
This is how I look at it...
As an athiest I believe it is fine.
But for those of you that believe in a god, why would it not want you to enjoy all things enjoyable? If God made it than it must be ok right? Otherwise procreation would not be as enjoyable.
Well I don't believe that it is wrong. I also don't believe that the government should be able to tell parents how to raise their children. (Except in child abuse instances) I was spanked and turned out just fine.
More like a coping mechanisim. When something bad happens they can simply say that it was god's will. Without that people may actually have to figure out why things happen and try and stop them.
Again, slapping a kid and swatting a kid on the butt are two totally different things.
I will admit that I have no children but I have helped my sister raise her and what I found was that with some children taking something away does not teach them not to do it but how to act afterwards to...
Have you ever had to explain to a small child why something is wrong? They don't comprehend. A little swatt says to them that it was bad and not to do it.
It doesn't have to hurt for a small child to know that they are in trouble. Once a child gets to a certain mental age spanking is no longer required. They can comprehend why it is wrong.
I think it is possible that aliens have visited and/or planted life here. At one time all of mankind believed that the world was flat....Now we believe you can't travel faster than light. Curious don't you think?
I am not so ignorant to think that there is no life anywhere else in the...
Since when has a swat on the rear become a vilolent act such as punching? And how can anyone say that spanking is why mankind has become predisposed to conflicts such as violence and war?
If your religion says I can't be married in your church than I don't want to be there. But Religion should have absolutly no say on weather or not it is legal for me to marry someone of the same sex.
I don't want to be a part of any religion that doesn't want me as I am.
No they are not the same and IMO people need to realise that when my mother spanked my brother for setting fire to the kitchen it was not abuse. But when my friend was hit and sent flying, THAT was abuse. And unless we are abusing our kids then the state and everyone else should stay out of it.
Well I can tell you that I have become aware that everything in our world is related in some fashon. I do not believe that there are spirtiual beings guiding us. But a person's belief system changes over time. I don't forsee myself ever believing in a god again but one can't predict the future...
I find that there is nothing wrong with spanking, however it makes no difference if it is outlawed or not. Kids are already being taught in school that if your parent touches you to tell a teacher. A child throwing a temper tantrum already knows to tell their teacher their mom hit them and then...
I don't see what the big deal is. Two people love eachother and want to spend the rest of their life together. They don't need a peice of paper to do that. As for decision making and that sort of thing just get a power of attorney for them.
I don't believe that the government or religion...