afer reading all this, magik is magik in itself the use of it is bent by the will of the user and is thus just a means to an end but not the end in and of itself. just as if u raise a golem, is it good or bad? the answer lyes within the use of the golem.
forgiveness is rested and decided within the soul of ones own self there is no "best" way to forgive anyone because everyones own "best" can be any next ones "worst" the only way is to meditate within ones self and understand what the spirits that you meditate to councel you on and decide from...