And why is your claim that religion made you and me suddenly stupid? Why is faith, love and hope suddenly something we should look down upon? What do you say happens when one day you will close your eyes for all eternity? What are your thoughts before you fall asleep?
What you choose to identify as has everything to do with you and what you believe. If you say you belong to a family and you are in conflict with it's teaching, it's not wrong and unjust if someone tries to correct you. Catholic Church and pro-abortion doesn't get along, at all. Read this...
Note: Hate is not the same as anger. Hate is to say >I am more than everyone else<, but what happens when you are in a situation where you can't handle the circumstances? Say you have a brother who feels he's on top of a mountain, at home, all the time. But when he's in a situation outside home...
Where is your faith? You can't be >I feel like caring< and say >I'm Catholic<. Do you believe or do you only say you believe when you feel like you will get a pat on the back?