Fireside_Hindu
Jai Lakshmi Maa
One of the insights I've had in sadhana, and approach to this that has come up from studying these patterns in my family and friends is just how attached to gender I am. For example, I have some kind of soul relationship with a deceased uncle of mine. He is reborn either as my elder brother, or as myself. That part's pretty clear, but I just assume we (my brother and I) were both male in our last life. Could well have been one male and one female.
I've noticed that people, when conjecturing about who they were, etc. generally don't dispose of the gender identity across the previous lives. My one daughter was my FIL, so that helped extinguish that falsity somewhat. And so it goes.
It seems likely to me that close friends could easily become siblings, or vice versa. I also sense that the patterns are becoming far more globalized now, while previously they were quite village-centered.
If the tenancy is to reincarnate within families, what might cause someone to reincarnate across the globe, or even the next state over in a previously unrelated family, do you think?