i certainly don't believe that all non-Christians are automatically condemned to hell.
i believe that Jesus Christ is the only way to come into a relationship with God in this life, be born again and saved, and assured of one's place in heaven.
yet to say that all non-Christians are lost, because of something they never heard or had the chance to accept, is wrong.
look at Matthew 25 :
When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the angels with Him, He will sit on His throne in heavenly glory. All the nations will be gathered before Him, and He will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on His right and the goats on His left.
notice how it is written "all the nations". this must surely include non-Christians.
and look at what the criteria for judgment is :
Then the King will say to those on His right, 'Come, you who are blessed by My Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave Me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave Me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited Me in, I needed clothes and you clothed Me, I was sick and you looked after Me, I was in prison and you came to visit Me.'
"Then the righteous will answer Him, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You something to drink? When did we see You a stranger and invite You in, or needing clothes and clothe You? When did we see You sick or in prison and go to visit You?'
"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for Me.'
"Then He will say to those on His left, 'Depart from Me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave Me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave Me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite Me in, I needed clothes and You did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and You did not look after Me.'
"They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help You?'
"He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, You did not do for me.'
i believe we are saved by faith and grace- faith in God's Son, and God's grace in response to our faith. we are also called to be committed Christ-followers, and not simply talk about Him, but obey Him, and love and serve as He's commanded us. if not, we should remember the parable of the Good Samaritan. a heretic and an outcast did the will of God where a priest and a Levite failed.
i know this is something i have to work on, too.