Ruadri Canmore
Knight Errant
Yesterday was my cousin's birthday and to celebrate we went to an amatuer Nintendo themed burlesque night. There were 14 acts where a woman would walk up on stage in a Nintendo themed costume (Yoshi, Samus and Link were particularly memorable)and do a striptease.
Though it was not what I had expected. It was more like community theatre than a strip club. It was held in a theatre for one, and there were just as many women in the audience as men. The dancers weren't being paid to do this they all volunteered just because it was something they wanted to do. The girls had all made thier own costumes, devised thier own acts (often with a lot of Nintendo in-jokes) and phoned the event organizers and asked to participate.
The women were also not what you would call conventionally beautiful, that is to say they weren't beautiful by Hollywood standards. They weren't ugly or anything, they were just ordinary women, the kind you see everyday at work and whatnot. Yet when these women got up on stage an performed I was set on fire! Which at the time I thought odd because normally strippers and women just being naked don't excite me all much. Like from time to time I would hear other guys talking excitedly about going to strip clubs or how a particular actress got naked in this or that movie and I just thought, "what's so exciting about that, just go on the internet you can see a naked woman any time". Yet here I am becoming more aroused by a heavyset "ordinary looking" girl dressed as Pikachu taking off a glove than I would be by watching Sasha Grey actually have sex.
I kept turning this over in my mind until this morning when I had a revelation. I think the reason I found these women more attractive than the supposed paragons of female beauty you see in Hollywood was because the women were dancing around naked for the sake of dancing around naked.
I get the feeling that most actresses, models, pornstars and such just focus on making themselves look sexy however if thier job did not require for them to look or act sexy then they would not put the effort in. Thier desire isn't to be sexy but to do a job. But the women at the Burlesque, they were putting themselves out there because it was something they wanted to do. They wanted to be sexy for the sake of being sexy and I think that's what made them so sexy. They didn't want to look sexy to achieve some end, they wanted to be genuine sexual beings, and it was freakin' hot!
Does anyone get what I'm talking about? And does anyone have some thoughts on this?
Though it was not what I had expected. It was more like community theatre than a strip club. It was held in a theatre for one, and there were just as many women in the audience as men. The dancers weren't being paid to do this they all volunteered just because it was something they wanted to do. The girls had all made thier own costumes, devised thier own acts (often with a lot of Nintendo in-jokes) and phoned the event organizers and asked to participate.
The women were also not what you would call conventionally beautiful, that is to say they weren't beautiful by Hollywood standards. They weren't ugly or anything, they were just ordinary women, the kind you see everyday at work and whatnot. Yet when these women got up on stage an performed I was set on fire! Which at the time I thought odd because normally strippers and women just being naked don't excite me all much. Like from time to time I would hear other guys talking excitedly about going to strip clubs or how a particular actress got naked in this or that movie and I just thought, "what's so exciting about that, just go on the internet you can see a naked woman any time". Yet here I am becoming more aroused by a heavyset "ordinary looking" girl dressed as Pikachu taking off a glove than I would be by watching Sasha Grey actually have sex.
I kept turning this over in my mind until this morning when I had a revelation. I think the reason I found these women more attractive than the supposed paragons of female beauty you see in Hollywood was because the women were dancing around naked for the sake of dancing around naked.
I get the feeling that most actresses, models, pornstars and such just focus on making themselves look sexy however if thier job did not require for them to look or act sexy then they would not put the effort in. Thier desire isn't to be sexy but to do a job. But the women at the Burlesque, they were putting themselves out there because it was something they wanted to do. They wanted to be sexy for the sake of being sexy and I think that's what made them so sexy. They didn't want to look sexy to achieve some end, they wanted to be genuine sexual beings, and it was freakin' hot!
Does anyone get what I'm talking about? And does anyone have some thoughts on this?