About Marriage

[Amandi]

I think scientific. science must to prove. existing or absent.
all religions is theory.

Ok, have you tried making friends in scientific communities or on campuses then? If you are on FB here is a link to a FB group for Turkish Atheists:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Turkish-Atheists-Theists-Union-Turk-Ateist-Deist-Birligi/48812753195

 

[aiyanct]

Sorry hiatus, i am also facing merely the same problem. I am muslim girl(26) fall on love with christian guy(25) since 7 years. Our parents and relatives not accepting this intercaste marriage. i am going in depress day by day. Only God have to do our favour.

 

[hiatus]

Thank you for your help
I will a search in there. it is ethical for group?

Ok, have you tried making friends in scientific communities or on campuses then? If you are on FB here is a link to a FB group for Turkish Atheists:

 

[hiatus]

It is very bad. I did worry for you. It is not humanistic. our is not a guilt. but we are exclusion from the community. muslim people exclude other other people of faith. Christianity is same too.

Sorry hiatus, i am also facing merely the same problem. I am muslim girl(26) fall on love with christian guy(25) since 7 years. Our parents and relatives not accepting this intercaste marriage. i am going in depress day by day. Only God have to do our favour.

 

[Quintessence]

Don't take this the wrong way, but I would strongly suggest finding ways to be happy and satisfied with your life that aren't dependent on a particular set of expectations being met. Don't tell yourself "I have to have a girlfriend" or "I have to get married" or whatever. Allow yourself simply to be and be happy and grateful for what is. This doesn't mean you can't set goals, but it's no good to make yourself miserable about what you currently don't have.

Easier said than done, I know.

 

[hiatus]

the love is best a feeling. If I can't marry then I will be alone lifelong.
and I will can't feel this feeling lifelong. my only guilt is non-religious... it is ironic for one humanitarian

Don't take this the wrong way, but I would strongly suggest finding ways to be happy and satisfied with your life that aren't dependent on a particular set of expectations being met. Don't tell yourself "I have to have a girlfriend" or "I have to get married" or whatever. Allow yourself simply to be and be happy and grateful for what is. This doesn't mean you can't set goals, but it's no good to make yourself miserable about what you currently don't have.

Easier said than done, I know.

 

[Quintessence]

Nonsense. You won't be alone. Unless you're going to be a hermit living at the top of a mountain with zero contact with other human beings, including via the internet or writing letters and such.

 

[Amandi]

Nonsense. You won't be alone. Unless you're going to be a hermit living at the top of a mountain with zero contact with other human beings, including via the internet or writing letters and such.

One person's alone is not another person's alone. I have contact with people every day of the week. However, 4 of the 7 I feel extremely alone because I work nights and dont get to interact with my friends during those days. I do know it is something I need to work on but it cant just be dismissed.

 

[Amandi]

Thank you for your help
I will a search in there. it is ethical for group?

Ok, have you tried making friends in scientific communities or on campuses then? If you are on FB here is a link to a FB group for Turkish Atheists:

I havent participated in the group so just be careful. I am not sure how good of a group it is. Just take it slow and pay attention to what people say on there.