I definitely don't define God as Love. I'm sorry, but to me that definition has always seemed deeply reductive.
I understand. I believe it 100% to be the case after considering it other ways. It is the one conclusions that has the power to draw everything sentient to Himself. Just something we can disagree on
And I also disagree strongly that true love is void of suffering. True love is built largely on caring, empathy, investment in another: all of those are doorways to suffering, since even if one does not suffer directly, the pain of the beloved is as one's own pain.
Now I make a distinction between Love we experience as humans and Love as in God.
Any love we experience as humans can be described as experiencing parts of God at times. In other words of Love is God and God is Love, we are just simply experiencing part of the nature of God, while living as humans. So of course our love as humans will be better known as the opposite of hate in some cases, or pain etc... However, if God IS Love, God does not need to experience these things to know himself, he simply has to exist.
It is us, that must know love in the manner that you are describing. So I agree with you from a human perspective, but can't pertaining to God.
Maybe it's just the Jewish/Christian divide, but I just don't see any reason why not to apply it to God, except if you need not to apply it to God so as to have a justification for Jesus' existence.
No, not so I can justify Jesus. I am just stating a fact as I see it, that Jesus can fully experience what we experience because he was human like us, where as God is spirit. So, I think applying our experience directly to God may be convenient for us to do, but perhaps isn't the wisest of path as I see it.
First of all, this argument supposes that suffering would not exist if we knew what was to come, or could see all the results of our choices. But I do not believe that to be the case.
Not exactly. Humans suffer from one other reason as well, namely the fear of death. Even if we could know everything that would happen here in this life, we don't perhaps know what's beyond the grave. So it is very hard for us to escape the idea of fear and suffering.
God however, can grant life, take life, etc... So in addition to knowing the outcomes, he can fix boo boos, and give and take life, in other words remove much of what people fear, though he would have to do this miraculously, but he could do it, and he knows he could do it.
Point being, us knowing the results of our choices again, and comparing that with what God knows, and then concluding God suffers seem awful weak to me.
Sometimes suffering is unavoidable, though I grant you that may indeed be only in human experience. But sometimes suffering is voluntarily taken on in service to a greater cause, or in order to gain something of greater value to us than the suffering. And even if we knew what was to come, we would still choose the path that led through suffering.
No problem with what is said here.
But in any case, whether God knows what is to come or not makes no difference (though personally, I believe that there are matters of which God chooses voluntarily to temporarily have no conscious awareness, in order to preserve human free will). The relevant point is that we have no such knowledge, and it is in empathy to our pain that God suffers.
I can only say again, that you are applying empathy that humans experience and all that is associated with it (suffering, crying, etc...) and insisting God must be or should be the same way. When there is plenty of reason to say otherwise.
It is part of our brain structure, our biology to cry, and all of that. Perhaps all tools to know what Love is. However, why is knowing Love so important? Again, to me, if God is Love, it is of utmost importance, and we have been designed to be able to follow the crumbs and not only find the source of Love, but become compelled to worship it.
I suppose we are a bit off topic, hope I am not boring you. Thanks for the replies.