A recent exchange led me to revisit an ancient realization: while it is customary to talk of "believers" in some creeds, belief proper is often optional and very circunstantial.
It seems to me that in practice what we see (most often and most emphatically in the Abrahamics) is rarely an expectation of belief proper, but rather of a certain attitude of reverence or at least quiet respect towards those beliefs.
In a sense that is necessary; those doctrines tend to be proselitistic in nature and to hold expectations that non-believers can or will be convinced at some point. In practical terms, they adopt belief itself as a goal, even as a virtue to be cherished and praised.
I am not sympathetic to that stance, particularly when the beliefs are directed towards the idea of the existence of some variety of the Abrahamic-styled gods, which I see as anathema to religiosity itself.
But beyond that, I just don't think that it is healthy to deliberately nurture a duty of delusion and obfuscation inside a group that aims to have some form of religious brotherhood. That attitude creates quite a lot of anxiety and mistrust in order to protect the perception of shared beliefs. That stress isn't otherwise necessary and IMO isn't even helpful for any proper religious purposes.
If you disagree, would you like to elaborate on how or why? Does your experience clash with mine in some way that you would want to express here?
Thanks in advance.