There's a huge difference though, parents don't send their kids to burn for an eternity when they don't meet expectations.
If one doesn't follow Islam, can they call themselves a Muslim?
But we are not his children and god is the all beneficent and the most merciful.
but if someone chose hell by his choice,then he deserve it.
if your son didn't want to listen to you and he used drugs,then itsn't your problem that
he through himself to the path of destruction.
God warns and we choice,no one to be blamed,except one's self.
[On the Day of Judgment,] every human being will be held in pledge for whatever [evil] he has wrought
(74:38)
[Be conscious, then, of] the Day when every human being shall come to plead for himself [alone] and every human being shall be repaid in full for whatever he has done, and none shall be wronged.
(16:111)
"Today, then, no human being shall be wronged in the least, nor shall you be requited for aught but what you were doing [on earth].
(36:54)
lest any human being should say [on Judgment Day], "Alas for me for having been remiss in what is due to God, and for having been indeed one of those who scoffed [at the truth]!"
(39:56)
WHOEVER does what is just and right, does so for his own good; and whoever does evil, does so to his own hurt: and never does God do the least wrong to His creatures.
(41:46)
[and he will be told:] "Read this thy record! Sufficient is thine own self today to make out thine account!"
(17:14)
BEHOLD, from on high have We bestowed upon thee this divine writ, setting forth the truth for [the benefit of all] mankind. And whoever chooses to be guided [thereby], does so for his own good, and whoever chooses to go astray, goes but astray to his own hurt: and thou hast not the power to determine their fate.
(39:41)
Every human being is bound to taste death: but only on the Day of Resurrection will you be requited in full [for whatever you have done] whereupon he that shall be drawn away from the fire and brought into paradise will indeed have gained a triumph: for the life of this world is nothing but an enjoyment of self-delusion.
(3:185)
And leave to themselves all those who, beguiled by the life of this world, have made play and passing delights their religion; but remind [them] herewith that [in the life to come] every human being shall be held in pledge for whatever wrong he has done, and shall have none to protect him from God, and none to intercede for him; and though he offer any conceivable ransom, it shall not be accepted from him. It is [people such as] these that shall be held in pledge for the wrong they have done; for them there is [in the life to come] a draught of burning despair, and grievous suffering awaits them because of their persistent refusal to acknowledge the truth.
(6:70)