Going back to the other thread, when discussing morality — which is simply how we should act — I am almost always speaking from a first person, subjective perspective. So, from a third person perspective, there is nothing wrong with being involved with community.
I was speaking to the pull (first person) of identity and habit. Eventually, we have to choose (psychologically) between preserving the meaning associated with that identity and those behaviors or detaching from that meaning in pursuit of a more fulfilling, sustained meaning.
We won’t pursue higher truths or higher meaning if we are actively preserving the meaning we are familiar with.