The polys and monos have their own threads going, so I thought I'd provide a voice for us members of the Lonely Hearts Club.
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Drolefille
PolyPanGeekGirl
<3 <3 <3
Single due to circumstances. I have zero social life. I would like to have an SO, preferably a girlfriend, but I don't know how that would happen. So I will be alone for the foreseeable future, unfortunately.
Nymphs
Well-Known Member
I'm sorry to hear that! If you lived closer, we would totally hang out. :yes:
That would be awesome.
Nymphs
Well-Known Member
Why no social life?
I'm a recluse who barely leaves the apartment and every time I try to make friends, they end up being flakes and either dropping me or never do anything with me. Without the Internet, the only social contact I would have with people is when I have do errands or therapist or doctor's appointments.
Reptillian
Hamburgler Extraordinaire
I've embraced my singleness...confirmed bachelor here. I don't see myself ever wanting to spend part of every day with some shrieking harpy who criticizes my appearance and tells me I need to take out the trash.
Nymphs
Well-Known Member
Seriously move here. The area in which I live has a huge GBLT (emphasis on the T) community and is very supporting. :yes:
Nymphs
Well-Known Member
I'm taking you are basing this on a previous relationship?
I'm originally from San Francisco and my mom and I are supposed to move back to the Bay Area when she retires. That's the plan, anyway. Our plans have a habit of not happening. We've been suffering out here since the late '90s. I have a burning hatred for Ohio. They can nuke this place for all I care.
Reptillian
Hamburgler Extraordinaire
On a current relationship with a female friend. I used to want to date her, but after spending a lot of time with her as a friend, I've come to realize that she's an obnoxious shrew.
With how many times I've been ****** over and abused by people I've been involved with, I wonder why I bother. But the need is still there. I've never had an IRL romantic relationship and I'm mostly a virgin. All of my relationships have taken place online and all of them were abusive. One was so abusive, I ended up in the ER on suicide watch. The only IRL experience I have was with a lying ***** who was cheating on her husband (it was cheating, not an open relationship) who used me. Unfortunately, she was my first kiss and the first person I've done anything sexual with (which I didn't enjoy, but she did - she was selfish).
So, yeah. I don't know why I bother wanting it.
Reptillian
Hamburgler Extraordinaire
It's just a lot of drama. I'm at that point where I'll know if the right person comes along, but in the mean time I don't really care to search. I'm fulfilled in other parts of my life.
Shadow Wolf
Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
I'm trying to get there myself for grad school. I may hold you to that claim. If it isn't true, things will happen to you, like lots of gloomy and rainy days.Move to the Pacific Northwest.
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Seriously move here. The area in which I live has a huge GBLT (emphasis on the T) community and is very supporting. :yes:
I'm not too fond of Ohio either. I use to have a friend who lived in Ottawa, and about 20 miles or so before Ottawa I would see a sign that said "Ottawa - 20 miles." The only thing is, 20 miles down the road was Ottaville, with a sign outside of that town that read "Ottawa - 20 miles." Been awhile since I've been around Columbus though.
Nymphs
Well-Known Member
I'm trying to get there myself for grad school. I may hold you to that claim. If it isn't true, things will happen to you, like lots of gloomy and rainy days.
That's typical.
But only during the winter. The summers here are gorgeous and I'm loving the one we have now. What grad school?