I am an Indian Hindu, but have never met a tantric.
How do you practice?
Lately I've been focusing a lot on meditating, mantras, and being more aware and in control. I find myself taken over by a Bhakti of sorts a lot but it's distinctly darker and I am trying to learn to focus that better for meditative ends. I've gotten some back into working with Mandalas/Yantras and light work with energy and spirits but nothing too heavy yet. I'm at a period where I'm trying to improve my foundation of ability so I don't make the same mistakes I've made in the past. In my mind, meditation and hypnotic states are the basis of the magic I do and so that's what I've been focusing a lot on the last year or so. A lot of my spiritual energy has went into worship and music (I see the music as a form of Bhakti) so I've not done as much Tantra Tantra as I wish I had.
Overall I've done anything from necromancy to using my blood for making sigils and yantras (which I then burn) to summoning spirits to divination and a bunch of other stuff. Funny enough the making of the sigils and yantras and burning them I find has a lot of parallels to the Mandala work done in Vajrayana. Back long ago I used to work with Dakini-like spirits, but the couple of times I had tried to summon an actual real named Dakini I freaked out and got scared because I revered them too much and didn't think I was ready. But then again the ones I was thinking of summoning were beyond what my skill level was at the time. I might try it again sometime. Maybe i had worked with a Dakini before and didn't know it. I've gotten that sense at least once when talking with a spirit.
There have been a group of some spirits I've worked with off and on over the years. About a dozen of them. I used to think of them as some kind of almost angel like beings but not terribly long ago I realized that they are much closer to Rakshasas. They seemed to be noble, and had a strong sense of honor. In particular they considered themselves warriors but never wanted to harm anything without very good reason.
I'm trying to get more into Yantra meditation but I'm kind of bad with sight visualizations so I just end up focusing on mantras more (I'm very sound oriented). So I'll then just use an image of the yantra to focus on. Sometimes I will fixate on a picture of a deity and meditate to that. Generally any magical or hypnotic type of thing to help me feel some level of nonduality with the object I'm focusing on whether it be a yantra, mantra, a song, a picture, or whatever.
Some of the most Tantric Tantric stuff I've done is meditate naked covered in ashes in a graveyard. I did that a few years ago under the instructions of the Tantric who introduced me. It was a fairly powerful experience but I hadn't done it since for fear of getting in trouble. I have meditated in graveyards clothed without ashes however since. I've also worked on Kundalini meditation a lot, focusing on my chakras from the spine rising. Although for some reason 2 of my chakras irrespective of where I am in the process. One of them that feels like it's on my midback will often radiate and I'll sense patterns and circulations go around it and me bigger than me corresponding to the main yantra I use. A lot of these sensations though are not super vivid more like it's on the cusp of perception, I can feel it and know it's there, but I'm not seeing seeing or feeling feeling it in the normal physical sense. A physical sense of perception has happened a few times, and it's always freaky when it does and rather spooks me.
Lately I've been focusing a lot on death and decay to overcome my fear of death and dead things. So I'm taking some inspiration from the Aghori but so far it's mostly been mental and meditative for me. I'm trying to try to maybe meditate in graveyards more and am thinking of what I can do that is more actually involved while staying within the confines of the law.
I'm always trying to find ways I can be more Tantric in general. I think in terms of actual practice I'm kind of close to the Kashmir Shaivite Kaula way where Aham (the heart) is seen as the ingredient for the path towards Moksha and so many pursuits like music and other things can be a way towards that. However I can't be Kaula as it's very guru and communal based. However I am like it in that it's a householder LHP path. And well I'm not imo at the point where I can live ascetically.
I want to get there eventually. I try to live without as many things as I can. But as with most ascetics I don't think I will be one until much later in life. I more see what I do now as a gradual path towards something like that. Part of why I want to be more and more "Tantric Tantric" in the normal traditional sense is that coming from where I am, it's an evolution over time I'm aiming at. It's been a calling for me, weirdly since before I knew anything about it. I don't know if I will ever be fully ascetic in the same way as the traditions like the Aghori ect but I aim to get close. One plan I have for the relatively close future, within the next 1-3 years is to move to a wandering life style and give up most of my possessions, keeping only religious items and whatever I'd need at that point to produce music since music is so religiously and spiritually important to me. I'm not totally sure what I should do day to day then, other than focusing on spiritual improvement and on music and taking in the vast wild nature in the United States but I suspect I will find a calling helping whoever I can along the way. All I know is that I have felt compelled to do this for a few years now. And it eats away at me that I can't do this in a practically safe way
yet and leave behind the shackles I feel entombed in right now.
EDIT: Whenever I say divination, I mean trying to discern things about the nature of the universe, deities or myself through insight and magical means. It's more closer to revelation than something like fortune telling which I don't believe in.
Also I forgot to mention sacrifices but basically I just offer fruit and the like sometimes, or even those yantras I make as I burn themThe more artistic ones I make with pencil and color feel like a bigger sacrifice to me as they take a lot more mental effort to make.
Do you feel that ancestry has a role in Eastern religion?
It does for the Chinese and Japanese at least. For me personally to some degree but not exactly in the sense that most might think of it. I more look to named ancestors as helpers and spirits to respect more than something to worship.
So you don't go to a temple on a regular basis? I was thinking of the heavy Eastern cultural influence on Hinduism, if it were me I'm not sure how I'd feel about dress codes, religious observances, dietary changes and so on. I'm pretty sure a person raised in the Hindu tradition would feel the same way about my culture btw, I was just curious.
It would be nice to go to a Temple but none are nearby. I'd like to dress to some degree more inline with Hinduism but it's also a paradox for me because I'm not Right Hand Path and so I'd technically be on a different set of rules and yet I kind of want to follow more of those RHP rules BECAUSE it's not the expected and out of American rules and customs. The LHP is very context specific, and in the context of American culture I might do something (for example not eat beef or pigs) to differentiate myself from others. So it might be considered more orthodox in India but I'm doing it more to be not like the normal American as a sign of my religiosity. So to me, I see that as me doing something LHP. I go back and forth on how to treat many dietary things. In Vamachara (LHP) they permit wine and meat and other stuff but that stuff is already "the norm" in America.... so am I RHP or LHP by defying that norm? That's the conundrum I sometimes ask myself. But I mostly just say "meh. I'll do what I'm convicted to do" and just move along.