Shushersbedamned
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Narcissistic abuse here referrs to abuse inflicted by a person suffering of a narcissistic personality disorder.
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Ask anything from a third time victim of narcissistic abuse
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Shushersbedamned
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A narcissist rarely changes a light bulb bc they believe they are too important for menial tasks. However, if you speak to them about changing a light bulb and they wish to use you in future they will probably do info dropping on you and give you the impression they are particularly good at changing light bulbs as well, as a matter of fact.
Axe Elf
Prophet
Crap, I meant to ask, "How many narcissists does it take to change a LIFE STYLE?" Dang auto-correct.
Like is three enough? Or are you going for four?
Sometimes u r 2 much!
Axe Elf
Prophet
That's what she said.
Shushersbedamned
Well-Known Member
My life style? How do you define "life style"? What does it include?
A single abuse case by a narcissist when you are the main victim in the situation changes a person. It can often be traumatizing. It removes certain delusions that one often has about people and a human being in general. If you see behind the mask of a narcissist while they abuse you the sight is so horrifying you will never be quite the same. However, how it affects your life style is very coisidental depending entirely of situation.
But your question seems to insinuate I am supposed to change my lifes
tyle..
Axe Elf
Prophet
But your question seems to insinuate I am supposed to change my lifes
It was just a lighthearted way of saying that maybe you could consider not dating any more narcissists. But hey, you do you.
Shushersbedamned
Well-Known Member
I have never dated a narcissist.
Kangaroo Feathers
Yea, it is written in the Book of Cyril...
I think he was suggesting changing the part of your lifestyle that includes so many narcissists. Frankly, without knowing anything about your personal circumstances, it seems a reasonable suggestion.My life style? How do you define "life style"? What does it include?
A single abuse case by a narcissist when you are the main victim in the situation changes a person. It can often be traumatizing. It removes certain delusions that one often has about people and a human being in general. If you see behind the mask of a narcissist while they abuse you the sight is so horrifying you will never be quite the same. However, how it affects your life style is very coisidental depending entirely of situation.
But your question seems to insinuate I am supposed to change my lifes
Axe Elf
Prophet
I have never dated a narcissist.
Well then quit hanging out places that narcissists hang out, or whatever.
Shushersbedamned
Well-Known Member
I'm wishing that was a spelling mistake
Kangaroo Feathers
Yea, it is written in the Book of Cyril...
Wishing what was?I'm wishing that was a spelling mistake
Look, once was chance, twice was coincidence, but if something bad happens to you three times, it's reasonable to assume either you are doing something to attract the bad thing, or the bad thing is doing something to attract you. In either case, it's up to you to change things to stop the bad thing happing again. It's not fair, but narcissists will always be narcissists, and there will always be more of them out there. The only variable in the equation is you.
Shushersbedamned
Well-Known Member
Thank you for the insult, but you clearly know nothing about narcissists so I'll just forget I read that.
I don't think it fair to take his words as an insult. I think he was trying to help you.
Kangaroo Feathers
Yea, it is written in the Book of Cyril...
What insult?
If you've been the victim of narcissists 3 times before and don't want to be again, stop doing the thing that brings you into close involvement with narcissists. If you don't mind it happening a 4th time, keep doing the same thing, I guess.
Hey, you know a good word for people who perceive any criticism, even concerned, supportive and constructive criticism, as an insult?
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What does it do to you to be abused by a narcissist?
The only way to win is to not play the game. Narcissism is like table tennis they have to hit the ball at you and you have to hit it back. Stop. The end.
They don't have real feelings, that's the first thing to understand. What you are shown is what they need you to see to keep playing the game. Toxic as all hell....
Araceli Cianna
Active Member
No need to ask, been through it plenty enough myself (unfortunately!)
Shushersbedamned
Well-Known Member
See, this is why I referred to the PD, there is no 'places where narcissists hang out'. You talk absurdities.