Yes, that too! But I would like to tack on in there somewhere that I am going to be extremely skeptical, to the point of needing monumental evidence to demonstrate a God, specifically, to me.
Extreme skepticism is called 'bias'. Otherwise, skepticism is just skepticism. It's the state of being unconvinced, but open to being convinced. If you are no longer open to being convinced, then you are no longer skeptical, you are opposed.
One again, the relative "largeness" of the claim is important here. I remain open to the possibility of being convinced there is a God... but again, the weight of the evidence is going to need to match the weight of the importance theists tend to place on God.
The problem you're having here is that you are allowing, in fact,
insisting that the theist define 'God' for you. But he can only define God for himself, which is unlikely to correspond with any idea of God that will resonate with you. So you are throwing a giant illogical impasse into the exchange before it can even be sorted.
Just bring me actual, valid evidence of a god...
Sorry, but
you have to determine what the evidence for 'God" would be,
for yourself. Time to let go of that giant bias and face the question honestly, and for your own self. Stop using it as an excuse to attack what other people have chosen to think and believe. Of course, you can simply say you don't care, and move on. That, too, is a viable option. But attacking other people for their not convincing you is just childish and mean-spirited. And pointless.
In fact... if you reply to nothing else in my entire post, please reply to this:
Let's say I offer to sell you a bridge, and your interest is piqued. We talk about the bridge and discuss some of its features, etc. And then it comes to a point where, naturally, you ask to see the deed to the bridge. I say "Of course!", and then reach into my pocket and bring out a $500 note from the game Monopoly. That is what I present to you as "the deed." And then you ask "What is this?", to which I reply (enthusiastically) "That's the deed!"
Now... in the above situation, do you KNOW FOR CERTAIN that I am not the owner of the bridge? Do you? Can you state that? I don't think you can. But, now please speak to your level of belief that I own the bridge. Do you believe that I own the bridge? And, even more pointedly, are you leaning toward NOT BELIEVING that I own the bridge, based on my idiotic pronouncements and behavior - with my being generally enthusiastic in the face of a complete lack of being realistic? I know I would be leaning toward positively believing that such an individual DOES NOT own the bridge. I would hold out just that slightest amount of possibility that they actually did, because I know that I do not know for certain... but certainly I would suspect that they do not own that bridge.
You are asking all the wrong questions. I don't need to know anything about YOU. What I need to know is what "owning a bridge" means to me. Does it mean having a title? What kind of title? Does it mean taking physical possession? How does that work? Does it mean I can simply proclaim the bridge to be mine and move on? Then, once I know what "owning a bridge" means
to me, and I determine
for myself that I do want to own one, I can decide whether or not what you are offering will help me achieve my goal. What YOU think bridge-owning is, is irrelevant to me. Just as what I think bridge-owning is, is irrelevant to you. I have no reason to know or care what you believe about bridge-owning. And you have no reason to know or care what I believe about it. And none of us has any reason to know or care what anyone DOESN'T believe about it. All that matters is if what you are offering will help me gain something that
I think I would like to possess.
Atheism as a 'position' is logically irrelevant.