we not discussing salaries, hobbies, children.Atheists have hobbies, but no one thinks collecting stamps is a form of atheism. Atheists have children, but no one thinks having children is atheism. Atheists have jobs, but no one thinks earning a salary is atheism. Just because an atheist does something does not make that something atheistic.
we're discussing atheist acting from belief in regards to an atheists behavior towards others and acceptable/unaccepatable behavior of others towards self.
these behavior are a result of one's beliefs in how self and other as self should behave