PureX
Veteran Member
Perfection is not necessary.Of course it is us. That would be my point as well. I agree that we are not automatons that can only operate in accordance to fixed instructions, but by the same token, it doesn't mean that these underlying instincts can be entirely shut off or ignored to the point they have no influence whatsoever.
It isn't the impulse that is the problem. It isn't our not understanding the scientific mechanisms of the impulse that is the problem. It's our choosing to act on it inappropriately. In ways that harm us all.Take the sex drive for example. The drive is always there during our reproductive years urging us to mate. We have the capacity to resist the urge, even become celibate, but it take conscious effort, and there has to be a reason to want to resist or restrain from the impulse.
The problem is that selfish, destructive behavior is contageous. One in ten engages in that behavior willfully, causing the other nine to engage in it defensively. And because no one wants to recognize what they have become as a result, we all pretend it's 'normal' and even 'wise' to do so.Most everyone manages this adequately, but some small percentage do not. Even those who do manage it may still feel in conflict over it, especially in light of how they may have been socialized regarding the instinct.
We have choices. We do not have to engage in selfish destructive behavior. But to have a choice, we have to recognize that we have a choice. Once again, it's our fear that drives us to make the irrational, destructive choices and then justify them by telling ourselves that we had no choice.Speaking of socialization, there are things we do that can exacerbate or play into underlying instincts like promoting and reinforcing racism, and there are things we can do to direct instinct to some positive use such as engaging empathy.
If only there were a place we could all go once or twice a week to be reminded that we have the choice NOT to succumb to our selfish fears, and NOT to seek our own well-being at the expense of anyone that dares to stand in the way. A place where we could go and talk to others that, like ourselves, don't want to be a complicit pawn in a giant monopoly game to determine who gets to be the demigods that rule over and destroy the world we all have to live in.So if we are stuck with these instincts and emotions, I suggest it is better to not ignore or discount them, but understand how they affect us and design social systems that utilize these instincts to advantage in meeting our goals as well as providing individuals successful and healthy strategies to moderate instincts that might have negative impacts to society.
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