It is wishful thinking to hope that the blue shirt, red shirt thing is finally over. I'd wait a few days before getting my hopes up because there is no way of knowing who might stop by.
Whenever you start to talk about how one person's choices affect another person's choices you are starting to cross over into fate and predestination and that is God's domain since God is the one who determines our fate.
I never claimed that everything that happens in this life is controlled by or subject to the free will of man as many things are outside of our control, and getting into an accident even though you were driving safely would be a good example of this. I would not say this was part of God's pre-thought-out plan, but it is our fate. We cannot say that it is something God
wanted to happen but because God does not interfere with what people choose to do, God allowed it to happen, so it was our fate.
Remember what I posted to you about free will vs. what God is responsible for?
“Some things are subject to the free will of man, such as justice, equity, tyranny and injustice, in other words, good and evil actions; it is evident and clear that these actions are, for the most part, left to the will of man. But there are certain things to which man is forced and compelled, such as sleep, death, sickness, decline of power, injuries and misfortunes; these are not subject to the will of man, and he is not responsible for them, for he is compelled to endure them. But in the choice of good and bad actions he is free, and he commits them according to his own will.”
Some Answered Questions, p. 248
Man is forced to endure them because God set it up that way since we live in a material world where some of the bad things happen are beyond our control.
I had a serious accident once six years ago. I was driving cautiously yet I was in the wrong place at the wrong time so I hit a 13-year-old girl because she literally ran out in front of my car in the dark when it was also raining hard, crossing the highway where she should not have been crossing to try to catch a school bus. It was later determined by the investigation that the girl was at fault and I was 100% in the clear but the school bus company was sued by the parents. That girl would have died had I been going the speed limit but I was going 35 MPH since I am such a safe driver and was driving for the conditions. She was badly injured but did not sustain any life threatening injuries, but can you even imagine how I would have felt if she had died, even though it was not my fault? As it was, I was unable to drive for three years after that and I only started driving regularly without anxiety for the last year or so out of necessity to go grocery shopping, since my husband does not want to go out anymore.
These kinds of things happen every day and make the thoughtful person wonder how God could be all-loving. At the very least, God owes us a big reward in heaven for making us endure life in this material world.