I love that story! I don't know why, but for some reason, I think some of the funniest moments in life happen when one is falsely accused of something he or she knows nothing about. Those are "Who me? WTF?" moments and perhaps I find them so hilarious because I see in them some sort of metaphor for existence itself. I mean, we're put here by the Cosmos and then treated to its all but slapstick sense of humor, so to speak. We never really know what's going on, but that doesn't stop the Cosmos from holding us accountable for it.
Can you recall any other situations in which everyone -- or at least most people -- were sure you were guilty of something that you were oblivious to?
One other time when i was much younger, me and my family were visiting my uncle. My other uncle was there too, and their kids were there, their wives, basically lots of people. One of my female cousins had a pretty interesting relationship with me, but it's mostly for another setting so just keep her in mind.
That day, when we were leaving and getting in the car, my mother was a bit late, and i wandered off with my mind staring at the window, thinking of stuff until she got in the car. She then looked at me with a severe look, and said "I can't believe you!" and shook her head and turned around.
My father started the car and moved. I was amazed, and took a while to respond, then asked "What are you talking about?". She didn't answer, so i yelled "What is it?!". She then stared at me even more severely, and my father said "Forget about him, i don't want you both to start yelling now".
After a while of this, she finally said "Why did you make your cousin cry?! Didn't you have enough yet?". Of course, i had no idea what she was talking about, and i didn't see anybody cry. So i asked angrily "What?! When did she cry, and why?". She looked at me with disgust, as if i was pretending i didn't know when i actually knew.
Lots of yelling came after that. I was angry, and my father was still worried about the yelling and so he spent the whole time blaming me and asking me to stop, sometimes telling my mom "Let it go, it's not worth it" as if he knew what she was talking about which made me even more angered.
Finally, she explained, and it turned out that my cousin heard me say something that i didn't actually say, and was crying to my mother when we were waiting in the car. At one point when we were there, i had noticed that my cousin was acting weird, so i asked my male cousin something like "What's up with her?". Instead of 'her', she heard a swear word, and that (along side some of the general stuff in our relationship) was why she cried.
I explained that i didn't say that, and my mother said "Well, that's what she heard". So when i got home, i called her. I began by saying "Why did you cry?", she said "I didn't cry.", with a voice that had the leftovers of someone who was crying real hard. I didn't say anything, and just waited, so she started telling everything. She kept saying stuff like "I know we're not really treating each other good these days, but this is too much", so i interjected and said that i didn't actually say what she heard. She insisted that i did, and said stuff like "Be a man, if you want to swear at me do it to my face".
I think that this was one of the times i was most enraged in my entire life, i was boiling with anger. I was so angered that, my only option was to respond extremely calmly. If i expressed the anger, i would've had to smash the phone, wreck the entire house, kill my family and go on towards her house in a raging mania.
So instead, i said "Listen, i'll try to clarify this, and like i said i didn't say what you heard, but if you say anything like the stuff you said so far again, i'll hang up". She started to tone it down while maintaining her insistence that i said it, and then she said "Be a man" again, so i hung up. She then called, and i picked up the phone and hung up again. She called again, so i let it ring and went away. My mother answered and she kept crying to her, and the situation was finally resolved, no less than an entire year later.