@adrian009 It isn't clear to me what you were trying to say about what I said. I don't know if you think that promoting those ideas disqualifies a person for membership, or you think that the mere fact of saying that it isn't wrong for people to do that disqualifies me from membership, or what.
I'll give an example of what I mean. I'm not sure that will do any good, but it might. I don't even know what people think we should do when they denounce us for not allowing gay marriage. If they think that we're still interfering in those marriages, or excluding people because of them, I would like to see some stories of that happening in the last ten years. Anyway, if that's what they mean, I agree that we shouldn't be trying at all to regulate same-sex marriages, or making them break up before they can join the faith. If they want same-sex marriages to be certified as "Baha'i" marriages, I disagree with that, as I explained in another post. If nothing else, it would be physically impossible for any same-sex couple to consummate the marriage.
For an example of someone who disagrees with the House of Justice about Baha'i marriage being only for a man and a woman, I'll consider someone who thinks that a same sex marriage should be certified as a Baha'i marriage, if it conforms in every way possible to the marriage laws. Personally I disagree with that, but I'll consider what I might do if I thought that it would be better for Baha'u'llah's purposes, and in accordance with His prescriptions, to do that. I might think that possibly the reason that other Baha'is don't see that is because of prejudice against gays, and I would try to help change that, in all the ways that I try to help change other popular attitudes and behavior. I might also try to spread my view among Baha'is in the ways that Abdu'l-Baha advises us to teach the Faith where there is opposition to it, one heart at a time, what we used to call "each one teach one." We even had a song about it.
"Each one teach one, scatter through the land.
Together individually, reach the heart of man.
Each one teach one, watch our numbers grow.
If each would teach, we'd have one world for Baha'u'llah."
That's an example of what I might do if I disagreed with the House of Justice about Baha'i marriage being only for a man and a woman. Not only do I think that would not be wrong, I would consider it a responsibility, and a part of following Baha'u'llah.