sojourner said:
Children do not need the affirmation that grace is available to their little souls?
Please understand, sojourner, that it is not my intention to show any disrespect. I just see this from a completely different perspective. In my opinion, it is impossible for a child to receive affirmation of something he is not cognizant of.
They do not need to be made "part of the family?"
I don't see them needing to be made part of the family because they were a part of the family (I'm speaking of "God's family," as I assume you are, as well) from the moment of birth. They only need to be accepted back into the family if they have strayed from it. I see a child as leaving the family as soon as he or she is old enough to understand what it means to disobey God's commandments (i.e. to sin) and chooses in any way to do so. I see baptism as the means by which that child (or adult, as the case may be) expresses the desire to once again be a part of the family. Once he has repented of his sins, he is free to receive "baptism of repentence for the remission of sins." At that point, he enters into a covenant relationship with his Savior, in which he promises to do his best to be obedient in the future. As a result of that covenant, he has the assurance that, with continual repentence, He will be justified before God.
It has benefit, in that the stories are told and become part of the child's history -- "where I came from."
To me, that part of the child's history would be much more meaningful if he knew that it came about as a result of his own choice.
There is no "advantage" in baptism. It is an act of obedience, but the act does not bring us salvation, for salvation is already ours.
It would be an act of obedience if the person who received it had the choice as to whether or not to participate.
That is how baptism is an outward sign. There is value, in that we are ritualistically complying with the requirements of the tribe. It's a sign to us and to the tribe that we are in compliance.
Or at least that our parents are.
When you witness a baptism, what does the act of the baptism inform you of?
It informs me that the individual being baptised has acknowledged his need for the Atonement of Jesus Christ and has made the decision to try to follow His Savior throughout the rest of his life.
What do you see happening?
I see the person as having an awareness of the miracle of forgiveness and as having faith in God's love.
What kind of knowledge do you gain by witnessing the act?
To me, it's a reminder of the day I experienced this wonderful event myself.