At 8:30, the bedtime ritual begins here.
The young War Lord takes his Abilify and Clonidine. At 9:30, he takes his melatonin. At 10, we both go lay down, and I tell him stories of random stuff family members did a long time ago(many who died before he was born). Provided all has gone well, and there's no mental health fits, he nods off within 15 minutes to an hour. (If there's a mental health issue, that's another rodeo.) Then I go downstairs and sit in my chair and try to unwind mentally so I can go to bed peacefully(and then I go crash).
What do you do?