This issue has frequently come to mind upon seeing people favorably refer to current or former military personnel as having "served" in a war.
Let's say a foreign army invaded a country aggressively and unjustifiably, as was the case in Iraq and Ukraine. Naturally, able-bodied people in the invaded territory would rise up to defend their homeland. But with the order-based nature of militaries, the forces of the invaders would kill those defending their home country from invasion. Many would lose family members and friends to this act of aggression.
On what logical or moral grounds would such an act of killing people who were merely defending their people and their country be considered admirable or respectable "service" as many refer to it? There is a case to be made that many are deceived into fighting and only know they were lied to when it is too late, but this still doesn't make fighting on the side of invaders an admirable thing; it only makes it the result of a lie.
I would never say that any of the Russian soldiers currently in Ukraine were honorably serving their country: there's nothing honorable about the Russian invasion. Similarly, I would apply that same logic to American soldiers who were in Iraq or any other invading forces attacking a sovereign country.
I'm interested to read what others think of this, especially if they think highly of current or former military personnel for serving in the armed forces during invasions that we now know were unjustified or unnecessary.
I have thought about this,my grandfather fought in ww1 and survived a gas attack and the war which i think he served honourably,my father fought in ww2 and served honourably,let's face it's not like they even had a choice.
The same goes for their enemy the Germans although they committed war crimes in ww1&2 with2 being the most heinous the average soldier in the German army probably felt they had served honourably.
When the Falkland war started everyone in the regiment wanted to go but instead the sent us to Germany on the east west border,during that time i lived in an NBC suit and mask,a whole armoured division,many tanks helicopters and infantry,a really impressive sight,you could feel the ground tremble but i didn't feel honourable as this was a war that wasn't going to happen,the honourable war was in the Falklands although i hate thatcher for sending our troops there without proper preperation.
My son fought in Kosovo and was wounded but it wasn't life threatening, he went there on peacekeeping duties but this i feel has been the mistake of Iraq and Afghanistan,shouldn't have been there in the first place but sending the Parachute regiment,Royal Marines,US Marines,these are not meant for peacekeeping theyr'e for killing,that being said my son went because a soldier goes where he's sent and although the Iraq and Afghan war were not honourable a soldier can still honourably serve his country imo.