I'm going to say that I'm very disappointed in the way some people are handling this thread; I've only noticed two posts that actually try to explain the Big Bang theory while everyone else just accuses Monomonk of being stupid and puts words in his mouth, such as bringing God into his questioning of the theory when he never once mentioned Him or implied anything to do with God. (you might call me hypocrite for accusing you guys of putting words into his mouth when you never used the word stupid, but saying things like: "you have not the slightest idea what the theory entails, and you seem committed to keeping it that way," implies stupidity. And just so we're aware, ignorance and stupidity are synonyms; I read calling someone ignorant or saying someone has ignorance without trying to correct it, the same as calling someone stupid.
Guys, (Jayhawker Soule and Mball) if you find that he doesn't seem to understand the Big Bang theory, why not try to EXPLAIN it instead of just implying to him that he's stupid? After all, that attitude won't help him understand anything.
That being said, Monomonk, I do highly recommend trying to understand the Big Bang theory, which is just a THEORY, mind you(and one that I, like you, question, though for different reasons) by reading about it in books. I'm not sure you'll get all the information you need on the subject here; it's a very complicated theory that would take 100 posts to fully explain on these forums. I can't explain it to you, I'm afraid, as I don't fully understand it myself.