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Is that wrong? I like someone and respectfully ask her to be my 'Shariq-e-Hayat' ('Companion in Allah's heaven' in Urdu, in other words 'wife'). It is for the lady to say yes or no. And I accept whatever be her answer.If only men could be respectful and not approach strangers to ask their hand in marriage!
Yeah, women use black bindis, but the black should include some color. Stark black is not our choice. Bindi would not go well with western clothes, though goes well with jeans in India.Honestly, I really want a black bindi and wear either a black and gold (or black and silvery) sari. Failing that, black bindi with western dark/black clothes.
I guess for me, I really want to express my femininity as a Hindu woman... something that isn't just plainly feminine as my religion is so important to me, and something that no matter what is clearly feminine even if I'm not dressed in the most feminine style due to something. To me, a Bindi represents so many things many of them relating to the Chakras and thus Kundalini and thus Shakti which is so central to the worship in Kashmir Shaivism as an avenue to Shiva.
Anyways I've also been planning to get a nath and have done research on them as well.
Which I want to ask about that as well, the nath with the chain to the ear, is that always for married women? I have read some conflicting information and that there are regional differences as well for that (as there is for most things).
I just want to make sure I am using everything within what is generally considered acceptable for Hindu women... the last thing I would want is for someone to claim I'm just a know-nothing white American girl misappropriating Indian culture! I want to be able to prove them wrong and otherwise follow all the rules as much as possible.
Is that wrong? I like someone and respectfully ask her to be my 'Shariq-e-Hayat' ('Companion in Allah's heaven' in Urdu, in other words 'wife'). It is for the lady to say yes or no. And I accept whatever be her answer.
Has this happened to you often, and what was your response to the men?If only men could be respectful and not approach strangers to ask their hand in marriage!
Has this happened to you often, and what was your response to the men?
Men are entitled to try and find a woman to marry: you are entitled to tell them to ****off.It hasn't happened, but knowing myself I would unequivocally would tell them to **** off. You don't just ask complete strangers to marry you, that is bizarre and creepy.
I know that in some places in India that unaccompanied women can get harassed by men trying to court them, but it shouldn't be that way. They don't even know her.
Anyways I don't see a problem with Bindi meaning a married woman in of itself. In America we have certain rings that mean that too for both men and women.