And also, I think the possibility of beneficial retroviral infections also can play into this.
You are still trying to invent a solution on the fly. You ought to be able to find a solution -- a solution that evolutionary geneticists publically embrace and agree upon -- a solution they publically defend as realistic -- a solution that evolutionists consistently incorporate into their theory, explanations, and storytelling. No such solution exists. I challenge you to identify one.
(Note: If a retrovirus inserted something beneficial into the genome, and that 'beneficial something' goes to fixation (it substitutes into the population), then it would still incur a cost of substitution, and fall under the Haldane limit.)
Haldane was very fixed on a linear or sequential mutation rate. Today, we know there can be simultaneous chains of mutations and then crossing in between.
You are mistaken. Haldane allowed for mutations arriving at random, with their substitutions overlapping in time in any arbitrary fashion, with sexual reproduction, crossing-over, and recombination of chromosomes. It was all already taken into account.
And on top of that, there's the chance of our ancestral "ape" having dormant genes that were turned on again, and other genes turned off. It doesn't take much.
You are again trying to invent a solution on the fly. It doesn't work. The beneficial 'thing' that "turns on (or off) a dormant gene" must nonetheless incur a cost of substitution, and falls under the Haldane limit. You solved nothing.
This whole "dilemma" argument sounds like someone would say that algebra should be questioned unless we can solve Fermat's last theorem. It was solved 15 years ago, but was the quadratic formula then invalid for 2,500 years since Pythagoras? Of course not. It was a problem in math that wasn't solved, but it didn't suggest that any other proof in algebra would also have to be wrong.
You argued by false analogy. Fermat's Last Theorem wasn't solved, and then it was solved. Haldane's Dilemma was never solved. Evolutionists should own up to that. Mathematicians did!
The "dilemma" was questioned even by its author originally
The name, Haldane's Dilemma, wasn't coined until after his death. So he did not question the "dilemma" (your quotes there). On the contrary, Haldane saw a serious problem here. Haldane 1957 concluded,
"I am convinced that quantitative arguments of the kind here put forward should play a part in all future discussions of evolution." (Underline added)
and the responses over the years have been where and what Haldane was wrong, so there isn't really a dilemma.
You are mistaken. Evolutionary geneticists, Crow, Ewens, Kimura, and Maynard-Smith, all took Haldane's concept seriously. They took it so seriously that they proposed radical new selection models (such as truncation selection) in an effort to solve the problem. Kimura wrote that "Haldane's Dilemma" (yes, he used that term) was the "main reason" why he proposed the theory of neutral evolution.
Also, he assumed chimps and humans aren't fertile until 20 yo, which is wrong. 15 or younger, especially in the past.
You're still trying to solve the problem yourself, on the fly. You're wasting your time. The key figure here is not the "age of fertility". Rather, it is the average-generation-time, which is a technical term in the practice of evolutionary genetics. Walter ReMine cited three different evolutionary geneticists for a figure of 20 years, for the lineage in question, over the said era of time.
It all also makes me think of moonlander conspiracy theorist who have all these tiny "dilemmas" they argue that have to be "solved" before they can believe we landed on the moon.
You're arguing by false analogy again. You're increasingly using personal attacks, and desperate tactics that do not serve you.
You're working too hard. For sixty years, evolutionists (falsely) claimed Haldane's Dilemma was "solved". All you have to do is identify a solution. It ought be easy.