Some extreme Christians, of the fundamentalist/Biblical literalist genre, bring the faith into disrepute with their unpleasant behaviour. Their attitude to the faith is most off putting, and is likely to have unbelievers running for the hills rather than wishing to take on board Christianity. I have been particularly disgusted by the nasty bigots who are anti-gay, they are evil, imo. There are many gay Christians in this world, as I have said before even Jesus could have been gay, as he supposedly had a disciple whom he loved. I would love to see the look on their faces if that could be proved to be correct.
It is interesting how people without understanding of both Christ and Christianity can assume such unrealistic views.
Test everything you believe and ask yourself if what you are reciting to the world is factual and sustainable as a reality.
Let us test a few of your points.:-
Extreme Christians who you claim are fundamentalist/Biblical literalist bring the faith into disrepute by unpleasant behaviour.
Firstly, if a Christian is a literalist they would love God and their neighbours as themselves and would be as Christ. Nothing unpleasant about Christ or his behaviour.
Christianity is not just set of rules and what exactly is there about Christianity would make people head for the hills given Christ is their saviour?
Atheists in the world also believe that being Gay is not natural. But it does not make them bigots or nasty and evil.
You see the things we believe does not make us nasty or evil it is a persons actions. So if they were cruel or nasty to anyone because they are gay then they wrong on so many levels.
The world of Christians has nothing to do with the world around us. Christians are spiritual beings who love God called out of the world to love their neighbours and to act as God has called
them. Till you have been a Christian born of Spirit and Truth you cannot possibly understand the bigger picture of what it is to love and care about the salvation of others.
Jesus could not have been gay,. Had you knew anything about the laws and the purity of the Messiah you would know he would never do anything which God had said was wrong.
What is good for yourself is not necessarily good for another. We have to live as we believe is right without hurting others.