Wow...its taken 40 years to get an answer?
Well here goes.....
Paul answered this quite simply....
If you understand the resurrection, then it means a return to life. One who was dead is raised to life again.....like Lazarus for example. Where did Jesus say Lazarus was? In heaven? The spirit realm? anywhere? Nope. Jesus said Lazarus was "sleeping". (John 11:11-14) This is in agreement with the Jewish belief that the dead were unconscious, inactive in "sheol" (the grave), awaiting a resurrection. (Ecclesiastes 9:5,6,10)
Paul wrote at 1 Thessalonians 4:13-16.....
"But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. 15 For this we declare to you by a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first." (ESV)
So what is Paul saying about the dead? They "sleep", just as Jesus said about Lazarus. There is no resurrection of anyone until Christ's return. When Christ was to come again, he would raise those of the elect "first". These, Paul said would be raised in the same kind of body that Jesus was...a spiritual body.
"It is sown in corruption, it is raised up in incorruption. It is sown in dishonor, it is raised up in glory. It is sown in weakness, it is raised up in power. It is sown a physical body, it is raised up a spiritual body. If there is a physical body, there is also a spiritual one. It is even so written: ‘The first man Adam became a living soul.’ The last Adam became a life-giving spirit." (1 Cor 15:44-45)
Now is that hard to understand? Seriously? The only thing that gets in the way of the truth is the false assumption that we have an immortal soul. The Bible teaches no such thing.
What a joy to teach someone who doesn't want to know what God's word says.
You want the Bible to say what you want to believe?....good luck with that. From your list here it is very apparent that you heard very little of what my brothers tried to teach you. I guess if you have your fingers in your ears that is not surprising.
No one can volunteer to go to heaven. Its not our choice. It is God who anoints the elect. He gives them a "heavenly calling" by his spirit. (Hebrews 3:1; Romans 8:16-17)
The resurrection takes place in two distinct stages as it mentions also in Revelation. Those chosen to rule with Christ in heaven (the 144,000) will be resurrected "first". (Revelation 20:6) Since this did not happen before Christ's return, then all had slept peacefully in their graves since the first century.
Once the Kingdom has "come" and the earth is cleansed, then Jesus will resurrect the dead who are still in their graves. (John 5:28-29) Jesus calls them out of their tombs, not from the spirit realm.
These will be subjects of the heavenly rulers. Those rulers are also priests, which mean that they needs sinners for whom to perform their priestly duties. No one who goes to heaven is still a sinner. Their sinful flesh is no more. Their resurrection to heavenly life is as glorious immortal spirit beings, like their Lord Jesus.
How does God know who all these people are so as to remember them all?
Isaiah 40:26...
“Lift up your eyes to heaven and see.
Who has created these things?
It is the One who brings out their army by number;
He calls them all by name."
Because of his vast dynamic energy and his awe-inspiring power,
Not one of them is missing."
Imagine! How many stars are there in the millions of galaxies in the universe? Yet God remember all their names.
If he can remember the names of billions of impersonal stars, would he have a problem remembering the personalities of all the humans who have lived and died on this small planet?....piece of cake. He simply recreates the whole person...memories and all. You think that the Creator can't do that?
The 1,000 years of Kingdom rule is to bring all redeemed mankind to the final test which will see satan briefly released from his prison to again tempt mankind into sin. (Revelation 20:1-3) Those who pass that final test will have their names written in the book of life permanently. They will remain on earth forever just as God purposed from the beginning. Everlasting life is not the same as immortality.
Try and read the scriptures very carefully so that you may cross those silly things off your list....OK?