I didn't know that stating an example was ascribing opinions to you. It was just an observation. In what way was I putting words into you mouth... explain it and I will apologize. I'm not trying to ascribe anything but state how you come across to people.
You seem to have a great thirst to try to minimize people you don't agree with. Why is that?
Well you obviously didn't even look it up (so I'm the lazy one here? again nice projection). Its not that difficult, but Ill post it anyways because you asked.
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Fallacy: Circumstantial Ad Hominem under circumstantial ad hominem
Person A makes claim X.
Person B makes an attack on A's circumstances.
Therefore X is false.
A Circumstantial ad Hominem is a fallacy because a person's interests and circumstances have no bearing on the truth or falsity of the claim being made. While a person's interests will provide them with motives to support certain claims, the claims stand or fall on their own.
So I make a claim about how both public and private options have both good and bad in each of the systems. Instead of addressing this premise you ask... "Do you watch fox news?" so there are 2 options. 1 this is a red herring (fallacy) where it would be irrelevant... just like asking if I watch the clouds. or 2 it is a loaded question trying to say that Fox news is the source of my information (which you alluded to later on in a post saying I sound just like my opinions came straight from fox). So I could take option 1... and wonder why you are asking me a frivolous question - which isn't related to the topic at all, and you are just being chatty. Or I could take option 2 given the context of an attack on a source - not the premise.
So to spell it out clearly and not be lazy.
I make claim X
You attack me for my circumstances (perceived sources of information - "You seem to have views that could be derived from FOX")
The inference then is that: Therefore X is false.
In all my history I have never had people ask me about what news organizations I watch in a political discussion just because they are interested in my social habits. It has always been in reference to sources of information and trying to counter argue with a ad hominem fallacy. I don't know how to take it any other way when you use that right after I make a point. Can you not see that it is a natural way to see your question "Do you guys watch fox news?"
I think you infer much and when people call you on it, you back off stating that it was never your intention. How are people supposed to read into that?