And how does any of what you've just said have any bearing on the question of whether a person is an atheist or not?
When I say "atheist", I don't mean anything like "super-smart person who knows better than all those silly theists", I just mean "someone who does not believe in God". A person can arrive at atheism rationally or irrationally, but none of this matters in deciding whether the term "atheist" is appropriate to describe the person.
Atheism is a term that describes a person's position or end state. It seems to me that all your answers have focused on the path that a person takes to reach that state, but this is really tangential to the immediate issue. Whatever path a person took to reach their current set of beliefs, if that set does not include a belief in any god, then the person is an atheist... regardless of what path the person took to get there.
Penguin, seeing as how you refuse to do the balance sheet approach, ie align your beliefs, disbeliefs up side by side of each other. I do understand, this would take time and would require you to sit in quiet reflection of your own beliefs to enable you to think clearly and rationally of exactly what constitutes your own belief in this matter. The for and against arguments and your own ability to critically reason.
Let us try this approach, it is far quicker and will not take up so much of your time. In essence it is the basic "Biami Line." I shouldn't get into too much trouble revealing this little bit to you.
Draw a horizontal and vertical line of equal length on a piece of paper. Ensure that that the two lines dissect each other exactly in the middle of each opposing line.
Using a compass, draw a circle using the cross hair centre of the dissecting lines as the middle point, so that the circle touches the end points of the vertical and horizontal lines on its way round. You should end up with four equal quadrants.
On the far right hand side of the horizontal line, just outside the circle write the words, Extremist Irrationalist. On the far left hand side of the horizontal line, just outside of the circle, write the words, Biblical Creationist, or Biblical Literalists. These are the two extreme positons down this line as it pertains to the deity debate.
On the top section of the vertical line, just outside the circle, write the word, Gnostic. On the bottom of the vertical line, just outside the circle, write the word, Agnostic. These are the two extreme positions as it pertains to the deity debate in this position.
Within the confines of this circle (otherwise known as a cycle), is every belief pattern known to mankind, as it relates to the deity position. Put a dot anywhere, and somebody, somewhere in all probabilty holds this position. The closer ones own personal belief gets to any line, the closer they are to that belief, than any person further away from that line. Any position which is on the circle line, is a positon of extremism. If you start seeing the beginning of Yin and Yang, your eyes will not be decieving you.
The base position, or the point of balance, is the mid point of the cross hairs, which is of course, the mid point of the circle as well. This is the position every person who follows a path of enlightenment is striving to reach. This is the same position that every new born child enters the world in, albeit in the new born childs case, it is a position born of ignorance of knowledge, rather than an accumulation of knowledge.