Such abuses are not only in Afghanistan but at other places too.
Ahmadiyya-Muslim [The Reformers] are against such abuses. We condemn such misinterpretation by fanatics.
Unfortunately, it is not the fanatics who are misinterpreting the Qur'an ...
Qur'an 9:29
"Fight those who believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, nor hold that forbidden which hath been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger, nor acknowledge the Religion of Truth, from among the People of the Book, until they pay the Jizyah with willing submission, and feel themselves subdued."
Calls for the faithful to harm "People of the Book" (that's Christians and Jews).
So any peace and love towards women verses only apply to Muslim women.
For non-Muslim women (or heretic Muslim women), a more appropriate verse might be
Qur'an 4:24
"Forbidden for you are women already married, except such as your right hand possesses. Allah has enjoined these on you."
Qur'an 23:6
"(Successful indeed are those believers who guard their private parts) except for their wives or those whom their right hand posseses."
Qur'an 70:30
"(Worshipers guard their private parts) except from their wives and from those whom their right hand posseses; such indeed, are not to blame."
So what the heck does "their right hand posses" mean?
Please correct me if I am wrong, but if you want clarification about anything in the Qur'an, then you need to look in the Hadith.
Sahih Muslim 8.3432 provides the context for 4:24 ...
"At the Battle of Hunain, Allah's Messenger sent an army to Autas and fought with the enemy. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their polytheist husbands. Then Allah Most High sent down the verse '(forbidden for you are) women already married, except those who your right hand posseses (Qur'an 4:24).'"
Sunan Abu Daud 11.2150 and Tafsir ibn Kathir and Sahih Bukhari 5.59.459 and Sahih Muslim 8.3371 provides similar support and additional details that paint an even darker picture for all three verses.
While this is not really the appropriate topic to discuss details on the Qur'an, this is where people are making false claims about what Islam teaches. This is not my opinion. These are the Muslim holy books that you and they can easily go and read for yourself.
Draw your own conclusions about what it says.