Spiderman
Veteran Member
I'm very anti-porn...
if you have a daughter or were you to have one, would you feel comfortable with her dating a pornography addict, even if he were well off financially?
Anyway, to the OP title, at the times in my life where I viewed pornography excessively, it seemed like it made me less bright, increased stupidity, and certainly made it more difficult to concentrate at work and school (yes, there was a time I worked and went to college).
It seems excessive pornography viewing continues to play in the subconscious and imagination, even when not viewing it. I notice that viewing it excessively really does seem to make a person (at least yours truly) more shallow minded, and the mind becomes always focused on sex rather than think about deeper things, or filled with fantasies that become more and more perverted, deviant, sadistic, depraved, and even illegal.
Perhaps some of you can occasional view something pornographic and it just gives you an appreciation for something beautiful God or evolution has created, but for some of us it turns into an unhealthy obsession.
It could be that pornography isn't unhealthy for everyone, just like alcohol isn't unhealthy for everyone, but I can see how obsession with sex and objectifying the human body chronically, could severely damage a person, harm a person's relationship with their partner or spouse, make a person more selfish, and lead to a person disrespecting, harming, or using others. Do you agree?
if you have a daughter or were you to have one, would you feel comfortable with her dating a pornography addict, even if he were well off financially?
Anyway, to the OP title, at the times in my life where I viewed pornography excessively, it seemed like it made me less bright, increased stupidity, and certainly made it more difficult to concentrate at work and school (yes, there was a time I worked and went to college).
It seems excessive pornography viewing continues to play in the subconscious and imagination, even when not viewing it. I notice that viewing it excessively really does seem to make a person (at least yours truly) more shallow minded, and the mind becomes always focused on sex rather than think about deeper things, or filled with fantasies that become more and more perverted, deviant, sadistic, depraved, and even illegal.
Perhaps some of you can occasional view something pornographic and it just gives you an appreciation for something beautiful God or evolution has created, but for some of us it turns into an unhealthy obsession.
It could be that pornography isn't unhealthy for everyone, just like alcohol isn't unhealthy for everyone, but I can see how obsession with sex and objectifying the human body chronically, could severely damage a person, harm a person's relationship with their partner or spouse, make a person more selfish, and lead to a person disrespecting, harming, or using others. Do you agree?