I would never condone hatred or bigotry towards anyone
I think you already have. The problem here seems to be that you don't consider discrimination against loving, committed same sex couples bigotry, probably because you've draped the practice in words like conscience , faith, and religious conviction. That doesn't make it not bigotry. It also doesn't make it illegal.
Those "Christians" who walk around with placards, verbally attacking gays and calling them horrible names, did not get that instruction from Jesus
How would that matter? Christianity is barely related to the Bible. You've been asked repeatedly to show where Jesus said to discriminate against same sex couples because we know that you can't, and sure enough, you haven't. You do that out of choice, not based on any biblical commandment.
But when it is convenient, you distance yourself from other Christians with the comment you just made. You imply that they are not Christians. Of course they are, just like you are despite your nonbiblical positions.
Mr Phillips is not a bigot.
Mr. Phillips is a bigot.
If you watch the videos posted on this thread, you will see that he is a reasonable and fair man who serves gay people in his shop.
If he discriminates against same sex couples, he is not a reasonable or fair man. There is no reason to do that,and it is a gross violation of the Golden Rule. Yet he chooses to do so anyway.
The "couple" involved obviously wanted to make an issue of this rather than to just take their business elsewhere.
The couple involved obviously wanted a wedding cake and chose to fight back when unlawfully discriminated against.