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Can we compromise on abortion?

ImmortalFlame

Woke gremlin
I agree, however if you are in a crash you are responsible for the consequences of that crash. Same with getting pregnant.
Okay, let's run with that argument.

Let's say you cause a crash, and as a consequence of that crash a victim is in dire need of organs. You happen to have the right kind of organs that person needs.

Should you be forced, by law, to donate your organs to the victim of that crash?
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
You liken me to white supremacists', you liken me to rapists because I think human life should not be killed.

No, I liken you to a rapist because you deny the need for consent from the people you would subject go your will, and I liken you to a white supremacist because you argue for different tiers of rights for different groups of people.

Then you say you are ok with abortion up until birth and you think you have the moral high ground.

That's right. And I do.


These are sick beliefs.

So now you're pretending you have a problem with late-term abortions?
 

Clizby Wampuscat

Well-Known Member
Okay, let's run with that argument.

Let's say you cause a crash, and as a consequence of that crash a victim is in dire need of organs. You happen to have the right kind of organs that person needs.

Should you be forced, by law, to donate your organs to the victim of that crash?
Good question. My initial thought is no because the human life created did not have a say in being created. A person that drives knows there are risks to driving and made a choice to drive. The person at fault has moral and legal responsibilities to have insurance and pay medical bills and repairs of the other person. I will think on this more though.
 

Heyo

Veteran Member
I think human life should not be killed.
Even though this isn't directed at me, I take it as it answers my question to you.

You make the distinction human life, so you are not "pro life" but "pro human life" and I won't ask you if you are a vegetarian.
But is your pro human life stance consistent? Are you equally against starting wars, the death penalty and government (police) using lethal force?
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
What species is it then?
It is not a "species". Species is a term that applies to a group of living organisms. Biologists do not tend to count the fetuses, embryos, and zygotes separate from the host. They are not counted until born.
You believe that the mother who freely has sex has the choice to terminate her rights to take care of her child but the father does not. Why can't the father just say the child will cause a financial hardship or he is not ready to be a father etc., and terminate his rights to the child?
No, you are still operating under the false premise that that is a child. It is not a child until it is born and then both have the same rules applied to them.
Both the father and mother have an obligation to take care of the resulting human after their free choice to have sex that created the human.
Yes, after a child is born both have the same obligations. Before then it is the woman's choice. It is not a "child" until after it is born.
 

Clizby Wampuscat

Well-Known Member
Even though this isn't directed at me, I take it as it answers my question to you.

You make the distinction human life, so you are not "pro life" but "pro human life" and I won't ask you if you are a vegetarian.
But is your pro human life stance consistent? Are you equally against starting wars, the death penalty and government (police) using lethal force?
So as I have said pro life to me is a label about abortion not anything else. This has historically been the case. I can show anyone that is pro choice is not pro choice on all issues. It just derails the abortion debate.


Here are my stances but they have nothing to do with the abortion issue:

I am not a vegetarian.

I believe wars should be a last resort. All wars since WWII the US has been in should not have been fought. There are times where force to stop evil is required such as WWII. I am against a forced draft for military service.

I am against the death penalty.

Sometimes police need to use lethal force. Bad police officers need to be charged and punished.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
There has always been compromise; it's just not where you want it to be.

In the US, the arrangement where abortion was legal in every state but federal funds couldn't pay for it was a compromise.

Here in Canada, abortion being legal but late-term abortions being practically unavailable most of the time is a compromise.
Due to restrictions on late term abortions merely being an attempt by the pro-lifers to get a foot in the door I have my favorite compromise. No insurance coverage for abortions after 22 weeks unless medically necessary. Any way halfway honest antiabortionist knows that the number of abortions in the 22 week plus range that are on demand is for all practical purposes zero. Over 99% of abortions occur before then. Almost all that occur after that are medically necessary. I do not mind a person having to show that an abortion was necessary at that stage. Current bans on late term abortions are largely there to make people getting legitimate ones have to jump through hoops a bit. With my compromise they can make their case after the abortion. There would be no need to put off any longer what has to be done. A tiny percentage of less than 1% of all abortions would have to be paid for the the woman. That is compromise enough.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
A while back, I posted a similar thread to this on a Christian forum. What I got from the pro-life people there was an emphatic "no". Abortion is murder and we won't rest until it's stamped out totally.

I'd like to try again here, a more reasonable place, mostly.

Here's the question. Looking at the current situation in the USA, it seems to me that we can only come to some kind of peaceful agreement on abortion if both sides compromise. Pro-life people must allow some abortions and pro-choice people must accept some restrictions. Then, once the compromise is reached, most people have to accept it and abide by it.

I'm not proposing any particular solution, just saying that we can't go on like this forever.

What do you think?
I would say that if Christians can compromise on working on Saturdays, or Sundays, they can also compromise on what they call murder. Both things are in the same short list of moral wrongs delivered by the very giver of morality.

so, if one is ok, there is no real reason why the other should not be ok, too.

ciao

- viole
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
So as I have said pro life to me is a label about abortion not anything else. This has historically been the case.
Except this hasn't been the case even historically.

Generally, the "pro-life" label has also included at least an anti-MAID stance as well as a stance against legal abortion.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
I would say that if Christians can compromise on working on Saturdays, or Sundays, they can also compromise on what they call murder. Both things are in the same short list of moral wrongs delivered by the very giver of morality.

so, if one is ok, there is no real reason why the other should not be ok, too.

ciao

- viole
I would say that the Bible is even clearer about working on Saturday. It is not clear at all on the abortion issue. I can find better arguments for abortion being legal than Christians can find against it with their own Bible.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
I would say that the Bible is even clearer about working on Saturday. It is not clear at all on the abortion issue. I can find better arguments for abortion being legal than Christians can find against it with their own Bible.
Yes. But the counter factual consequence of assuming the 10 commandments have any value, is that working at Mc Donalds on Sunday is as bad as shooting a baby girl in the face. that is just a pure logical conclusion of the belief. And once you have that, then abortion should be a moral cakewalk.

ciao

- viole
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
Yes. But the counter factual consequence of assuming the 10 commandments have any value, is that working at Mc Donalds on Sunday is as bad as shooting a baby girl in the face. that is just a pure logical conclusion of the belief. And once you have that, then abortion should be a moral cakewalk.

ciao

- viole
I would argue that the Ten Commandments do not apply because the Bible clearly did not think that fetuses etc. counted as being human. Though if one goes by the Ten Commandments carved on the tablets in the Ark of the Covenant the Tenth Commandment almost applies. No I take that back. It is more of a ban on cheeseburgers than anything else.
 

Clizby Wampuscat

Well-Known Member
It is not a "species". Species is a term that applies to a group of living organisms. Biologists do not tend to count the fetuses, embryos, and zygotes separate from the host. They are not counted until born.
It meets the definition of species. What else is it if not human life?

No, you are still operating under the false premise that that is a child. It is not a child until it is born and then both have the same rules applied to them.
No, I was referring to raising the child after birth. I have not referred to the preborn as children.

Yes, after a child is born both have the same obligations. Before then it is the woman's choice. It is not a "child" until after it is born.
The mother can say I don't want to raise the child once born and terminate it prior to the birth and is applauded for it by pro choice people. The father cannot even just say I don't want to raise the child, nothing about terminating it, and is derided by the same people that applauded the mother.

We both agree that the mother and father have responsibilities to take care of the life they created, we just disagree when that obligation starts.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
It meets the definition of species. What else is it if not human life?

Nope, you have to justify that claim. You do not get to simply ask silly questions. I will give a one time exception. It is potential human life.
No, I was referring to raising the child after birth. I have not referred to the preborn as children.

No such animal.
The mother can say I don't want to raise the child once born and terminate it prior to the birth and is applauded for it by pro choice people. The father cannot even just say I don't want to raise the child, nothing about terminating it, and is derided by the same people that applauded the mother.
Not applauded. You can do better than that. And I do agree that a father should be able to "abort" his ties to the potential child. That fight cannot be settled until abortion is settled.
We both agree that the mother and father have responsibilities to take care of the life they created, we just disagree when that obligation starts.
Yes, and since your standards are inconsistent we can't go by those.
 

Clizby Wampuscat

Well-Known Member
Nope, you have to justify that claim. You do not get to simply ask silly questions. I will give a one time exception. It is potential human life.
I am ok with potential child but it is human and it is life. You say it becomes human at birth, that is just an arbitrary point in the development of the created life. The point is an abortion stops the person from having a chance of becoming a child once the process has started by the free choice of the parents.

Not applauded. You can do better than that. And I do agree that a father should be able to "abort" his ties to the potential child. That fight cannot be settled until abortion is settled.
So you think the father can just have a child and abandon it to have others take care of it? That is immoral in my opinion.

Yes, and since your standards are inconsistent we can't go by those.
This is not a response to my statement.
 

Alien826

No religious beliefs
We are well beyond this point now in some areas of the country. Women who have miscarriages are being denied treatment because the treatment procedures are the same procedures as an early abortion. Doctors are leaving those areas out of fear of prosecution, leaving fewer care options available for women who want to bear children. It will quickly escalate if the malignant legislation is not repealed.

That's what I was saying ... I think. We are in swamp now, fighting alligators. Maybe it is too late for compromise, which could include reasoned discussion. Is it too late to drain the swamp? I hope you are familiar with this analogy.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
I am ok with potential child but it is human and it is life. You say it becomes human at birth, that is just an arbitrary point in the development of the created life. The point is an abortion stops the person from having a chance of becoming a child once the process has started by the free choice of the parents.


So you think the father can just have a child and abandon it to have others take care of it? That is immoral in my opinion.


This is not a response to my statement.
You need to drop the strawman arguments if you want to have a reasonable discussion. When you cannot deal with the arguments given to you you are only admitting that you are wrong.
 

Alien826

No religious beliefs
Me too. But I'm also not going to raise the white flag to those looking to strip body autonomy from women just because it gets tiring. You're not talking about compromise, you're talking about conditional surrender. (You even liken it to how Ukraine should surrender) Not only will your pleas not stop them from continuously pushing towards no abortion. And they will absolutely use your capitulation to wedge further battles, but in the mean time you're suggesting that it's okay to endanger those slightly smaller group of women who don't find our they're pregnant until after 15wks because they were on hormone BC, or they have neuropathic conditions, or the fetus was weak and stunted growth led to no symptoms, or a unrelated condition had overlapping symptoms as pregnancy symptoms.

Why say no to back alley abortions for some when you can say no for everyone? Why do we need to capitulate when, and I can't stress this enough, you're not capitulating to reasonable people and they will not stop?
If you want to stand your ground and go for the only result that you can live with, go for it. If you win, you'll see me in the crowd cheering and waving a flag. You're saying you don't think compromise is possible or even advisable. Fine, that's really all I was asking in the OP. You're not going to win outright though without a constitutional amendment to enshrine, hmmm not abortion, too specific, maybe Privacy, in the Constitution. We've seen how a previously sacrosanct Supreme Court decision can fall to a determined attack.

I don't think capitulation is what I'm describing though. All this (very likely) stuff about the your opponents not giving up is not compromise by them, because there would be no real commitment to it. The questions are, do enough people that hold moderate views exist to overcome the extreme views on both sides? Is there some kind of middle ground they can agree on? Politically, is the only possibility for one side to win? Frankly I doubt it, and I'm beginning to wonder why I started this thread.
 

Alien826

No religious beliefs
I would say that if Christians can compromise on working on Saturdays, or Sundays, they can also compromise on what they call murder. Both things are in the same short list of moral wrongs delivered by the very giver of morality.

so, if one is ok, there is no real reason why the other should not be ok, too.

ciao

- viole
OK, so how can the other side compromise? Both sides have to give something.
 

Alien826

No religious beliefs
I do believe this is a temporary situation. Since the Dobbs decision every election has seen "pro-life" candidates loosing. If this trend continues, and I believe it will, abortion rights will be restored.

Sadly a lot of people are going to suffer, a lot of people are going to die in the meantime. But eventually the will of the people will prevail.
That is my hope too. Do you think the current situation where the States decide for themselves should continue? It's quite possible that one party or the other could pass a Federal law that, once confirmed by the SCOTUS, would affected everyone. Great if "we" do it, horrible if "they" do. If it remains with the States, it seems likely that there would always be options for those seeking abortions at the very least, and maybe slow erosion by those in "red" States could bring about change there.
 
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