-There are religions and denominations and individuals within them who oppose the hatred expressed toward LGBT etc., people. The positive list should include those
Here's my justification of why you can't put "acceptance of gay people" on the positive side for religion.
To be on a checklist of "this is a positive about religion" you have to credit religion for bringing that thing to the table. For example, the one thing I am giving y'all here as a positive for religion is this idea that "it comforts people who are afraid of death."
Religion is directly responsible for that comfort. Religion brings the idea of an afterlife, which allows people to think when they die that it is not the end of them. Atheism can't give that comfort. You can't get that comfort from movies, alcohol or your sports team winning the big game. You can rightly credit religion for that.
You can't do the same for acceptance of gay people, not by any stretch. The acceptance of gay people outside of religious circles is damn near 100%. So if you look at religion as a whole...the religious population vs. the non-religious population...acceptance of gay people is near 100% for the non-religious population, more like ~60% for the religious population.
Now, the fact that there are SOME specific religions that don't discriminate against gay people is correct, of course. I'm not stupid, I fully understand and agree with you. I also understand that not all members of religions that have anti-gay sentiment are anti-gay themselves. Example, at some point recently the Catholic population went over the 50% mark for people IN FAVOR of gay marriage rights. This means MORE Catholics support gay marriage than are against it.
But still...it's like 40% of Catholics who are against equal rights for gay people, when it's more like 1% of the non-religious community. What's more is, if you ask a religious person WHY they are against gay people, they will say straight out...
it's because of my religious beliefs. They confirm the cause and effect.
The Big Three that dominate the world today still have very high rates of anti-gay discrimination. You can't count this as a positive for religion, it has to be counted as a negative. When you see people on the street corner with anti-gay protest signs, they are never part of a running club, or a book club, or fans of a certain sports team...they are always there because of their religious beliefs, and they will tell you that directly.